Black People : What Is Needed Before Letting A Man Inside of You?

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  1. Destee

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    Peace and Blessings Sisters,

    I'm wondering, what is required from a Man, before you let him inside of you?

    Must he do or show you anything substantive? If so, what are those things?

    Must there be some kind of hard evidence, proving that he's worthy to be inside your body?

    Or do you just enjoy the act, and nothing is required, but mutual desire?

    What (if anything) is needed, before you let a man inside of you?

    :heart:

    Destee
     
  2. HODEE

    HODEE Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    :hi:May I just say. Wow...what a question.
     
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    :qqb004::hearthis::SuN037::kiss::zipit: AND SOME!!
     
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    Sister D,

    Do you mean sexually or mentally, emotionally, and/or spiritually?
     
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    This i gotta hear !!!!.......from da ladies the requirements needed before entering !
     
  6. free2b_me

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    IF HE HAS NOT MANAGED TO MASSAGE THE CEBEBRAL CORTEX (MENTAL STIMULATION) IT WILL BE HARD FOR HIM TO GET ANYWHERE NEAR ME. I DON'T MEAN PLAYING GAMES WITH MY MIND, I MEAN REALLY WANTING AND KNOWING WHAT TO DO WITH ME AND BEING IN-TUNED WITH ME. YOU KNOW LIKE POETRY. IF A MAN CAN'T GET THERE, HE GETS NOWHERE, FORREAL. :SuN045:

    THERE IS NO COOKIE CUTTER APPROACH TO THIS, NO ONE SIZE FITS ALL. EVERY WOMAN IS DIFFERENT AND I THINK THAT ALOT OF MEN HAVE TROUBLE REALIZING THIS. TO TREAT EVERY QUEEN DIFFERENTLY. SOME MAY NEED SOME THINGS FROM A MAN THAT OTHERS DO NOT. I JUST NEED A MAN TO SIMPLY BE HIMSELF. NOT BE AFRAID TO TALK, NOT AFRAID OF LIFE AND WHAT IT BRINGS. A MAN, NEEDS TO BE CONFIDENT AND WITH A LIL' SWAG. (NOT ARROGANCE) HE MAY NOT BRING HOME 6 FIGURES, BUT HE NEEDS TO BE ABLE TO PROVIDE SOME KIND OF SECURITY TO HER, CUZ WHEN A WOMAN FEELS SECURE, AND KNOWS THAT HE IS INTO HER!:smooch: DANG, AIN'T NO TELLIN WHAT IS GONNA HAPPEN HERE.

    TO SUM IT UP, IT IS A COMBINATION OF THINGS THAT TURN A WOMAN ON. IT'S NOT ANY "ONE" THING,(WELL MAYBE ONE) DON'T COME HALF A**. CUZ WHEN A WOMAN GOT YOU, SHE GOT YOU FORREAL. SO, YOU HAVE GOT'S TO BRING YA "A" GAME BABE, IF YOU PLANNING ON GETTING IN ON SOME OF THAT HOT ACTION.
     
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    I think

    ..free nailed it

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    I was thinking the same thing...very bold question....LOL


    I was thinking the title was meant for letting a man get to know you, your inner most feelings... I feel so naive now... LOL :hammer2: :skillet:
     
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    I agree every woman is different and requires things that some may not, but did you know men are that way too.

    One thing i learn was that ! no woman is the same in any way they all want differently
    but the thing is we have to find them things by entering the mental to learn her wants
    desires and what turns her on !

    So as i watch to see the different things each woman here might require before she let a man enter the pearly gates.
     
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