This has probably been covered before, but it just happened to me last night......
As most of you know, I'm going through a divorce. I've been separated from my husband for a month. I met a really nice guy a few days ago. We watched a movie, talked... nothing happened because I didn't let it. He knew that I wasn't up for a relationship, or even relations at the moment, and he seemed cool with it. He knows about the divorce, my son, and I thought it was clear that I was looking for nothing more than friendship at the moment.
He tried several times to put the moves on me, and each time, I deflected his advances. Finally, he called me today, asking to see me. I informed him that I don't want random people around my son just yet. He then told me that he wasn't used to restrictions with people, that he wanted to be in my life, be my man. I repeated my statement about not looking for more than a friend at this point, certainly not sleeping with someone I just met. He then told me that if he had to wait until I was divorced (which can be anywhere from 2 to 6 months) before he could "make love" to me and be the only man in my life, then he couldn't talk to me at all, no hard feelings.
So my question is essentially for the men: When you meet a woman you really like/are attracted to, and she's trying to get out of a relationship, do you wait for her, or do you move on? Why?
Just asking....
Toya
As most of you know, I'm going through a divorce. I've been separated from my husband for a month. I met a really nice guy a few days ago. We watched a movie, talked... nothing happened because I didn't let it. He knew that I wasn't up for a relationship, or even relations at the moment, and he seemed cool with it. He knows about the divorce, my son, and I thought it was clear that I was looking for nothing more than friendship at the moment.
He tried several times to put the moves on me, and each time, I deflected his advances. Finally, he called me today, asking to see me. I informed him that I don't want random people around my son just yet. He then told me that he wasn't used to restrictions with people, that he wanted to be in my life, be my man. I repeated my statement about not looking for more than a friend at this point, certainly not sleeping with someone I just met. He then told me that if he had to wait until I was divorced (which can be anywhere from 2 to 6 months) before he could "make love" to me and be the only man in my life, then he couldn't talk to me at all, no hard feelings.
So my question is essentially for the men: When you meet a woman you really like/are attracted to, and she's trying to get out of a relationship, do you wait for her, or do you move on? Why?
Just asking....
Toya