libertylady i found some things for you to read first it says that the husband is to be the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church.Ephesians chapter 5 verse 22.it also says for the husband to love the wife the way Christ loved the church.Ephesians chapther 5 verse25.i would recommend that you read ephesians chapther 5 verses 22-31.God never intended divorce to be but it is because the hardness of our hearts .people being unwilling to forgive.Matthew chapter 19 verses3-9.For better or for worse is exactly what it means no matter what Im gonna stay with you .Not until i find something better or someone who looks better.Poeople just give up to quickly.I hope i have been some help.Also read 1st corinthans chapter 7 verse 3 ,4 13 & 14