Black People : What do you think of boys/men?

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  1. carmel3lovin

    carmel3lovin Member MEMBER

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    Do you agree when most women say all men are the same and they all cheat?

    I think all men cheat because if the girl is still a virgin and she says she is saving herself for marriage/she isn't ready of course the man is gonna go somewhere else and get some from. Or you outta town for a couple of weeks/days they gonna f**k another gurl.

    All yall gurls out there that think they have a man that dont cheat, you better think again.

    I aint tryna put things in yall heads or nothing but think about it.
     
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    kente417mojo Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    No, all men do not cheat. Many men/ women cheat. Women always try and make it seem like they don't cheat and that's halarious. That's one of the biggest problems with men...we give you guys the benefit of the doubt when you are just like us. Women are as bad as men...if not worse. The only difference is you get the benefit of the doubt from us...and you guys lie better. Yeah, if a woman says she's wants to wait...that's cool...but you're not making the decision for me too. If you wanna wait...then wait...but I won't. That's a head game anyways when women try to do that. It's all about that "Let me see how bad you want it" crap. I'll tell you what....I don't want it that bad........to wait months and months for it honey. No way..no how. There are more options out there.
     
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    shouldn't this be in the relationship forum?

    BTW - I'm always amazed at how much people think they know about other people who they have never met.
     
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    It makes no sense to say a blanket statement like "all men cheat". It's not true. There are many many good men out there who love and respect the women they're with.
     
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    For once, maybe Twice :tongue: I have to agree with you.
     
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    panafrica Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    I think this is the 4th time I've agreed with Indya (I've been counting)! No all men don't cheat. I have never cheated on any woman I've been with.
     
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    All men do not cheat you have some very respectful and loyal men
    but both men & women cheat for many reasons it's not always the
    case if a woman saving herself her mate will cheat !
    it's no truth to that statement at all .
     
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    [email protected] ...well said.
     
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    queentswana Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Hi carmel ...
    A warm welcome to you, sit back, relax, make yourself at home...cause they bout to blast you ...lol

    First let me state that...No man has ever cheated on me, or me them. Well at least that's my feelings about it, because if a mate/husband/boyfriend that I am with, can and will have all of me. If he choose to stray and have sex with another, them do believe this...he cheated on himself...not me. So who's really cheating who? ...same applies to women.
    And just for the record ...all men don't/won't cheat. Death lurks and settles in basements (vagina) unknown. And some men just ain't going out like that.
     
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    sex = death.
    sex = life.
     
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