Black Teenagers : What do you think I should do?

Discussion in 'Black Teenagers - Teenz Exprezzed!' started by krazelyricks, Oct 1, 2006.

  1. krazelyricks

    krazelyricks Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Okay, well I started talking to a guy. I won't let his name be known but we've been going out for about a three months now. He's in the army. Sure I knew this before I started going with him but how was I to know we would only be going together for three WEEKS before he was sent off to New Mexico? We rushed into the relationship head first declaring our love to each other. I say it was only a week before he said he loved me and I responded. But now, it just dawned on me, was it real love or just lust? I mean, how else could you explain me constantly fighting the erge to go out on dates with the numerous men who try to talk to me? How else would you explain me giving my number out to guys and wanting them in a way I shouldn't? No, I haven't cheated yet nor have I even thought about given my body away since he's left but every day it gets worst and worst. It's hard going from having this man at your beck and call and going to not having him at all. Personally, I don't know how long I will be able to go on. I told myself that I could do it because I've had a long distance relationship before but a whole **** year is just too long. What am I going to do? I don't want to hurt him but at the same time a girl has needs. My needs aren't like a man but I do need some every now and then. I know he doesn't expect me to go a whole year, or does he? What should I do?
     
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    Emotions of feelings between the needs and wants through passion!
    if you committed and loyal to him and care by loving him then deeper
    inside you can wait until his return beyond the passionate lustful desires

    But if you feel and know within heart that his love and committment seem
    false and unworthy then you will move forward and complete those needs

    Often one may want or need that attention beyond what is given
    so dating and out going becomes more and your feelings are released
    from the thought of waiting your number is passed to enter-act with males
    by talking to them .

    you are the only one who can answer these question !
    look deeper into thy mirror and know what u feel is real
    only there lay your true answers sista , go visit with heart the mirror.
     
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    spicybrown Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Excellent advice Brother $$RICH$$.

    :)

    :welldone:

     
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