Black Relationships : What do you expect of a Man???

[MrBlak]

Black women:

What is the base level of experience and achievements do you expect of a black man before you would consider him for a romantic relationship, in the following areas: social development and abilities, romantic ability, intimacy experience, sexual experience and ability?

You can answer this for you right now and give a general idea of your age group, and/or you can answer it for the following ages (that you have alredy been thru): 15, 18, 20, 25, 30, 35+

Be honest as we are all adults, no need to be nice, just real.

Thanks,

MrBlak

(btw--Thanks destee for the idea how to get it posted :spin: )

 

[Nita]

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Glad to see you got it posted Brother!!!!!!!!

Now to try and answer your question.

I am 28. My needs are very simple. When lQQking for a mate I have never been the type of person to date a man for personal gain or for the things he has. I always lQQK for qualitites like Honesty, Trustworthyness, Respect, Giving, Hadworking, Gentle, Kind, Strong and HONESTY!....lol
If a man's heart is true, that's enough for me. He can be flippin burgers at a fastfood joint but as long as he's True I don't mind if we may have to strugle to make ends meet or if He has degrees and a wonderful job and can meet my needs with ease as long as I know His heart belongs to me we str8.

 

[MrBlak]

Thanks Nita!!
Question for you......if he has had limited dating/relationship experience, would you pass him over thinking it would be too much work to "make it work"?

 

[Queenie]

50+...is a pulse too much to ask for?

Queenie

 

[MrBlak]

50+...is a pulse too much to ask for?

Queenie

I guess by that age there is nothing to worry about in terms of if the guy has been in a serious relationship before, if he is experienced enuff in the sack, if he can be intimate with a woman etc. That is more something the younger women gotta worry about.....and DO discriminate based on.

Thanks for the post!!