Black Relationships : What Do You Consider Disrespect?

[Kingpin]

No its not appropriate

Ralfa'il'

I feel compelled to answer your question I, If you want to compliment a woman why not start with her eyes or her face? This should be what you first see. If your walking around the street with your face looking down at someones chest, that my friend is a quick way to get your a** knocked on the ground. If someone walked up to my wife and said, hey nice breast and butt you might as well have said nice tits and *** (sorry destee) I personnally would deck you right after my wife did...

You my brother need to start small. You can see a woman from across the room and make a mental note of certain attributes. But to blurt that out is rediculas.

I have a question for you would it be appropriate to ask someone with a deformity why they have or tell them how ugly and offensive it is?? I dont think so!! Why not because it just isnt civil!!!

 

[jamesfrmphilly]

We must not confused a lack of virility and a blown out flame with "maturity".

Some men no longer chase women because they are impotent and can't do anything with them anyway, but use "maturity" as an excuse for his lack of interest.

true, and then there are those who let the women do the chasing............but you wouldn't know anything about that would you?

In fact, most cases of impotency are psychological, not physiological.

and for the rest there's viagra...........

 

[jamesfrmphilly]

Ralfa'il:

when you come to a point where you think there is something wrong with those who disagree with you, that is a sign of mental disease.

 

[Ralfa'il]

Karm

Peace

Well said! And this is from a man's perspective!

It may have been well said but that doesn't necessarily make it true.

For every one man who doesn't want a woman for her body, there are 5 who do.

This is why I think honesty is key to establishing proper relations between the sexes instead of politically correct talk.




James

when you come to a point where you think there is something wrong with those who disagree with you, that is a sign of mental disease.

When you can't walk through a mall without picking fights with a mother and child minding their own business....

http://destee.com/forums/showthread.php?t=34421&page=1

I think THAT is also a sign of mental disease.

Which will eventually lead to physical discomfort in the back of a patrol car if you keep it up.

 

[Ralfa'il]

Kingpin

No its not appropriate
Ralfa'il'

I feel compelled to answer your question I, If you want to compliment a woman why not start with her eyes or her face? This should be what you first see. If your walking around the street with your face looking down at someones chest, that my friend is a quick way to get your a** knocked on the ground.

Brutha, trust me...
I'm over 6 foot and do contruction for a living, ain't NOBODY with sense is gonna even attempt to lay a hand on me..and live to tell the tale.
Their best bet is to get a gun...before I grab mine.

I can compliment a woman on her face, but why not her body also?

Again, who made up these rules that we as black men follow telling us how to relate to our woman and telling them what they should or shouldn't like.

The reason I ask this is because when you go to countries like Mexico and even France men casualy hit on women and compliment them on their bodies and the women eat it up like cake.

So it has to be taught behavior on the part of some to make our sistaz take offense to men finding them sexually attractive.

If someone walked up to my wife and said, hey nice breast and butt you might as well have said nice tits and *** (sorry destee) I personnally would deck you right after my wife did...

I'm not talking specifically about a married woman so why would you even bring that up and put yourself in the situation?

I have a question for you would it be appropriate to ask someone with a deformity why they have or tell them how ugly and offensive it is?? I dont think so!! Why not because it just isnt civil!!!

No because that's negative...not positive.

Insulting someone is generally considered rude and unacceptable in any culture because it harms people, complimenting people isn't because it usually makes them feel better.