HUGZZZ sis.
OK sis, lets talk about this...
Firstly, know that I'm here 4 ya aight & I'm always going to have your back no matter what only because I know who you are.
Dearest Sister Destee, Sweet Noble Soul that you are, I can see your dilemma in trying to keep peace within the site and what the site stands for especially among our people. I’ve read quite a lot of the post you have moderated and you are an extraordinary, beautiful, strong and very fair sister. It is important to keep the peace within the site yes, but more importantly my dear sweet heart it is important that YOU keep YOUR PEACE also and not allow your Peace to be disturbed like these Brothers have allowed THEIRS to be disturbed. We cannot afford to give away our power and this is what these Brothers are doing.
If anything I’ve learnt in life my Sister is that, things only really matter depending on the importance that we choose to place on them. In this case, it seems that both Brothers have taken up what really matters to them. Perhaps they may not agree on certain things and not able to communicate each others frustrations in a manner that is conducive and so may resort to being judgmental and even throwing insults which only shows lack of understanding and yes I dare say it, immaturity especially from Grown and enlightened Brothers. The thing is I love both of these Brothers. I love the energy they each bring though I may not necessarily agree with everything they post.
One Brother speaks on the fact that this is why Black people cannot progress because we clinch onto the Europeans… but at the same time what the Brother is portraying and doing is exactly why we cannot progress. We argue over the silliest and meaningless things. We speak about how white folks enslaved us and kept us in a slave mentality etc but yet we continue to allow them to control our thinking as demonstrated here with the Brothers fussing and fighting over a white person. Why are we allowing a white person to control us like that? …C’mon Please!!
While I'm here sis, I just want to say that one thing I do not like to see which I see quite a lot of is when we gang-up on someone when they are trying to express themselves and perhaps because of their lack of understanding or in their ignorance have difficulty in understanding what the argument is really about. Then you'll find others jumping on the bandwagon due to their own ignorance also not really trying to understand where that person is coming from. It is about trying teach and enlighten one another and we have to be mindful in how we approach others when trying to do so. Harsh words brings only negative energies in the mix that is not necessary and only adds fuel to the fire. Am I making sense sis, I'm typing so fast as the thoughts enter my head, so Pls forgive me if I seem to go off on a lil tangent.
Anyway, what to do? Hmmm. I cannot tell you what to do sis. Perhaps you need to meditate on it and the answers will come to you from your Higher self. I just want to add that we don;t need this type of dialogue as we see going on with these Brothers. Its not the way to sort things out. We are grown adult and we are trying to become enlightened Beings. We want our young ones to be able to learn how to communicate, discuss, debate and reason without abuse so as to have a future of Light Beings not thugs and ignorant mentalities.
Peace, Love, Light embrace U and yours eternal...
Hotep
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