I'm looking at Maury, where a 12-year-old (who got pregant at 11) is figuring out who her child's father was. The BOY in question was 13, who turned out not to be the father! The children, (who admit to still having sex), said they started messing around in fifth grade! Can you believe that fifth grade?! This is the craziest thing I've ever heard. How is a child who isn't even old enough to drive allowed to run and around and have sex? I can't even IMAGINE what I would do if I had a daughter that got pregnant at that age. Parents have GOT to do better by their kids... this is one of the reasons why the family structure for some in the black community is failing. And we need to start caring out about the future of our kids BEFORE we are even in the position to be able to conceive. Women need to only get pregant with men who will love and commit to them (which would help ensure a father will be in the home with their kids), and men need to use condomns. And when the kids get here, the parents need to establish EARLY who's in control. They also need to keep an eye on them... a 10 year-old shouldn't even be out by themselves to have the opportunity to have sex. Better yet, the kid shouldn't even have those types of thoughts at that age.