Black Relationships : What are the signs of a Crazy Lover?

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  1. Princess

    Princess Active Member MEMBER

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    As we all know people are very serious about being to toyed with today. If you were to meet a man/woman now. How can you Identify the crazy ones from the good ones. Just think if we can see the person up front, how we can save time/drama from entering into our lives.
    So what would you look for in a crazy lover? :hammer:
     
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    jamesfrmphilly going above and beyond PREMIUM MEMBER

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    one that keeps asking strange questions on Destee.com. :jump:
     
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    lol Brother James ... you so krazee ...

    Hey Sister Princess ... the scary thing is, the kraziest ones often look the most sane ... i've seen situations where you trust someone, believe in them, relax in their company and conversation ... only to find when you're dozing off ... they're standing over you with a knife try'n ta stab you ... (figuratively) ... i don't think there is a way to really tell, except by allowing the passing of time, which will always reveal a person's true intent and character ... so the key here is not to be in a hurry for anything ... let some time go by, and all things will reveal themselves.

    Most folk aint gonna be licking the windows of the :bus: when you meet 'em.

    :heart:

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    good question .....and often you can't really see these kind of people
    and have no way of knowing until you have inneract with them for some time
    and notice changes and wired things .

    you can start in a crazy lover how they become obsess with
    what you do / what you ware / who you be around
    they become obsess with being around you more saying things
    like you can't never leave me and other wired stuff their violent
    behaivor and temper but we can't really see this from the start
    of a relationship we learn this as we go and what's behind the
    mind of people .....obsession can be deep and deadly .
     
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    if you didn't have that knife under the pillow, they wouldn't be able to get you.
     
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    lol ... :lol: ... don't be tell'n my bizness Brother James!

    :heart:

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    u guys r crazy! lol :nuts:
     
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    How long did it take you to realize that? What were the signs?
     
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    Honestly if you don't observe your partner enough, or don't have the patience to view them in all situations....can anyone else convince you that your man/woman isn't normal (hence crazy). I personally feel that people know when they are involved with abnormal lovers, they just refuse to receive the warnings that their brains are sending them! :spank:
     
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    i kinda believe that Pan ....until it's too late and they become harmful
    so is it that many just look away and accept this behavior ?
     
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