I know a guy. A Brotha. Age 24. (actually he's a family member by marriage) He dropped out of highschool. Is (still) talking about getting his GED. He works odd jobs off and on. Anticipates being picked up by some local NFL farm? team. Won't fool with a sista to save his life. Light or Dark, So he tells people. He has a little girl, 5 by one white girl. A little boy a few months old by another white girl. Has to pay child support for the girl because the mother went to CSE. His drivers license were revoked. Now he can't drive the Car that another totally different White girl (-with money) BOUGHT him. So he latches on to the mother of the little boy. She pays his "way". Remember I said, he won't fool with a sista? There is a sista who he knew. -He claims not in the Biblical sense but she has a Child too and also went to CSE for support. So whenever he works they garnish his pay-for both kids. He Really claims that this child by the Sista is not his. So he ends up lawyer-Court-A Judge makes the Sista take a Paternity Test. He wants any money taken out of his check? Paid Back. The Sista says, even if the Test comes back and the child is not his? She ain't paying nothing. Meanwhile this Brotha as young as he is? I can just.....under my breath I think he's just Sorry. He has a lot of people feeling sorry for him. A grandmother who raised him like her own, supports the children and can hardly do so. It seems everyone is "patting" him on the back instead of "knocking" some sense in his head. There is a lot of Male Guidance as far as family but it is shot to hell. What kind of advice can you give a Young brotha like this? -I forgot to add, the results of the Paternity Test are not back yet, but he is so Wreckless with that, that there is a strong possibility that the Sista's child IS his too.