Black Relationships : Wearing Your Heart on Your Sleeve

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  1. legit-writer

    legit-writer Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    I had a question and I want legitimate answers. In my past relationships, I have had a bad habit of wearing my heart on my sleeve, so I have taken a break from relationships for a while. Now I am in a relationship with someone, and I am starting to run into the same problem, me wearing my heart on my sleeve. While he has not started to take me or what I do for granted, I need suggestions on how to put a stop to repeating the same mistake. Please and thanks in advance
     
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    Define wearing your heart on your sleeve?




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    Asomfwaa Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Always go in with the right consciousness. If your consciousness is such that someone will surprisingly take you for granted, you are already taken for granted.

    Nothing wrong with wearing your heart on your sleeves. It's worse when a woman isn't clearly appreciative of you. Just be yourself and if a man doesn't make you feel comfortable in that way find one who does. :)
     
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    G Ali Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Peace Queen,

    To a certain extent there's nothing wrong with wearing your heart on your sleeve...just step back and make sure he's the type to protect it instead of take advantage of it.
     
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