- Apr 21, 2007
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No I don't believe you were wrong in asking her about her employment situation...
I would have asked too if I got conflicting stories from two different parties that she had told.
It isn't necessarily you being nosy, it is just a concern for her and her kids.
Sometimes blood is not thicker than water...You may have to let her alone for her to figure things out on her own...even though it may be hard for her to do.
She is responsible for herself...I know you are worried about the well-being of her children, and I myself don't like to see children being taken away from their parents, but in some situations things like that have to happen if it is in fact a danger to their well-being.
I'm not sure how she is with her children, but her actions could affect the way these children grow up...and that in itself may not be healthy.
I can't say that she needs to be admitted because I'm not a psychologist but she sounds like she is very self-destructive and not thinking rationally...And it sounds like she is more than manic and depressed, she sounds like she had multiple personality syndrome too...And it is obvious that no one else around her wants to deal with her and her antics any more...and neither should you...she is a bully to other and herself.
Sometimes leaving a person like that along can sometimes make a situation worse or it can help them.
Don't feel bad...you seem to have done all that you can do.
I'ma pray for you and your family.
I would have asked too if I got conflicting stories from two different parties that she had told.
It isn't necessarily you being nosy, it is just a concern for her and her kids.
Sometimes blood is not thicker than water...You may have to let her alone for her to figure things out on her own...even though it may be hard for her to do.
She is responsible for herself...I know you are worried about the well-being of her children, and I myself don't like to see children being taken away from their parents, but in some situations things like that have to happen if it is in fact a danger to their well-being.
I'm not sure how she is with her children, but her actions could affect the way these children grow up...and that in itself may not be healthy.
I can't say that she needs to be admitted because I'm not a psychologist but she sounds like she is very self-destructive and not thinking rationally...And it sounds like she is more than manic and depressed, she sounds like she had multiple personality syndrome too...And it is obvious that no one else around her wants to deal with her and her antics any more...and neither should you...she is a bully to other and herself.
Sometimes leaving a person like that along can sometimes make a situation worse or it can help them.
Don't feel bad...you seem to have done all that you can do.
I'ma pray for you and your family.