- Feb 9, 2001
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Kitana, thanks for the clarification about the definitions. It is very interesting to see the variety of perspectives on whether unconditional love can be attained or not, whether it exists or not, that it does exist but only with God, and that it exists including outside of God. But Empathy's response made me pause a moment to contemplate.
Empathy: "...you either have it or you don't! I don't believe it can be attained, it just is. It is either there or it isn't you cannot try to love someone in that manner, it is a natural phenomenon."
Empathy, you don't believe that this "purest" form of love can be learned through enlightenment?
Scorp wrote: "Queenie, I don't think it's the latest "buzz" more like the latest "label". It's always existed but in this age of 5-year warranties, refund/exchange policies and money-back guaranties we are accumstomed to sure-things and an easy-way-out. When the going gets tough, the masses have gotten lazy and noncommital. But that lil voice in most of us--craves the possibility that unconditional love is right around that next corner so therefore don't seek it but let it find you and be open to it."
Deep and provocative statement. We are definitely living in times of throw-aways, fast-foods, disposable this and recycled that. Marriages can even take place at drive-thru's--just pull your car up to the window single, say "I do" and drive away married. In some circumstances, divorces can take place almost as fast.
I'm thankful there are still people out there who long for a deeper experience!
Empathy: "...you either have it or you don't! I don't believe it can be attained, it just is. It is either there or it isn't you cannot try to love someone in that manner, it is a natural phenomenon."
Empathy, you don't believe that this "purest" form of love can be learned through enlightenment?
Scorp wrote: "Queenie, I don't think it's the latest "buzz" more like the latest "label". It's always existed but in this age of 5-year warranties, refund/exchange policies and money-back guaranties we are accumstomed to sure-things and an easy-way-out. When the going gets tough, the masses have gotten lazy and noncommital. But that lil voice in most of us--craves the possibility that unconditional love is right around that next corner so therefore don't seek it but let it find you and be open to it."
Deep and provocative statement. We are definitely living in times of throw-aways, fast-foods, disposable this and recycled that. Marriages can even take place at drive-thru's--just pull your car up to the window single, say "I do" and drive away married. In some circumstances, divorces can take place almost as fast.
I'm thankful there are still people out there who long for a deeper experience!