I call this maturation .I think something that would apply especially to this online community is the mental aspect of the woman. The more elevated your mental state the less attractive you will find a woman that provides no mental stimulation. I look back and think of some of my past relationships and how the woman was physically very attractive but their lack of subject matter in conversation was so aggravating. I put up with it then because I was more interested in having a physical relationship. These days I would probably have to turn down a Beyonce because of the mental and spiritual bonds I am trying to make. A lot of good points have been made in this thread, I feel the thought process going into the subject and it is a good look.