Black Relationships : True or false. Dudes must go thru a "playa" stage and females must go thru a....

[Dany_Bill]

True or false. Dudes must go thru a "playa" stage and females must go thru a "hoochie" stage.

A "playa" stage meaning that man must go through a stage where he can have alot of female options. Usually in his 20's.

A "hoochie" stage is where women know they are desirable and do things to attract attention. Usually happens in the 20's too.

If people dont go thru or complete this stage they will repeat it sometime later on in life, hence the "hot mamas" in the clubs and older cats trying to look young. A so called midlife crisis.

Agree or disagree? Comments?

 

[MiztikalDreams]

Disagree to the fullest! In my honest opinion men and women alike go thru these stages because they don't know any better.

 

[Da Street So'ja]

i disagree

all what you mentioned is actually anti-family

now you do need experience in relations but you don't have to be a playa or

hoochie to get that

and most of listen and learn how to please you partner

i mean when i was young young i listened, read, and talked to older people

and that helped me build my confidence without having to be a dog about it

peace

 

[$$RICH$$]

I humblely disagree , when u see young men on this playa type thing
they out to prove only to themselves through a foolish mindset that they
are a playa ........one whom can get women at one time beyond da scars
they may bring ......no such as a playa stage only to folks who think it's so
often in da days before a playa was only called such for his controlling of
women who lay for pay and give it away .....pimp is a playa !

hoochie mama ......no more then a young lady hot and sassy smelling there own
panties trying to catch every man coming along da way these women also do this
for attention and out of lonelyness or stupidity another foolish act

Even so most know better but refuse to accept the truth so they turn to the silly
way of thinking and wanna rule , there seem to be lack of home trainning ........

the stage of life just don't have a playa or a hoochie in plan no more then man made
set ups of beliefs

the stage is set for the truth

 

[cursed heart]

Hoochie and a playa?
I'd rather you called both of them playa's.
Honestly they are not born this way.
Most of the time people date alot to see what's out there.
Some have been hurt and the only way to not become attached is to not stay around long enough to become that way.
There is nothing wrong with dating many people.
People should always be honest when dating several people at once.