Black Relationships : treat em like u dont need em?

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  1. Therious

    Therious Banned MEMBER

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    brothers have you ever found the more you stop chasing the more females throw them selves at you?

    or do belive in the numbers game, holler at say ten a week and one will say yes?

    do you ever find you get the "most" when you dont take women on formal dates but simply "chill" and not be the prototypical american but kissing buying dinner male?

    reverse pschology. seems to work every time.

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    (The older and experienced Sun Ship reading this post and rubbing his beard)

    H_mmmm?? Brother you’re tryin' to start somethin’…:lol:

    I’ll wait before I comment…I got see where this is going :D
     
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    i've seen it happen from the reverse side but also seen it blow up in one's face
    to a point and it can be lonely alone , but it's known to work with the right chemistry
    of mindset .... but this kinda way can blow up and leave you alone in the cold ......

    i'll return to express why it can blow up without the right mindset or say chemistry.
     
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    Therious, you're mad funneeee! Haaaaa-yeah! All Of The Above works for me!!!(smile!)

    Here's something that has always intrigued me until now, and that is when you've got a woman, the more you can get! Sorry sisters, but I've seen this play out all too often in this life... Seems like sisters are so competitive that when they see a brother with another sister...that sets them off... Makes 'em wonder "what she got that I don't have???" "what makes her more attractive to him than me???"

    Peace!
    Isaiah
     
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    And we wonder why a good brotha can't find a good woman!
     
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    I've definately seen this first hand. If you kiss thier butt and let them be the "queen" then it's all over. The best thing you can do is make sure they realize that there are others out there if they don't want to act right. I rarely ask a woman out anymore because 1. It's just not worth it because the quality of women are in the gutter. 2. You get noticed more when you pay them no attention at all. Or, you'll also get more if you come at them strictly as a friend. The reason women are the way they are is because they have stupid men falling all over them all day long, so they seem to think they "deserve" all that attention.
     
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    there are a hundred ways to "play" on a sister.
    what we need is to elevate the game such that we are no longer "playing".
     
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    I agree james, both men and women play too many games. What I suggested was part of an overall change in mentality when it comes to women. Most American women aren't even worth the attention and effort that we put forth. Our time and effort should be better spent than chasing women that really have nothing to offer.
     
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    i dont mean dog a woman out. but just be more real, when u find that one then shell deserve ur respect.
     
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    this is how black men could conquer the world.
    just stop thinking about sex for a minute.
     
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