How is everyone doing? I don't mean to put my troubles on everyone, but I need a little advise. I'm a 34 year old female with a small child (4yrs). I'm not married to her father, but we are still 'together" in the same household. We have been together for 6 years, lived together for 4 years. I have not been in love with this man for at least 3 1/2 years. I have not kissed him in 3 1/2 years. We have not made love in 3 1/2 years (although we have been intimate). I 'm still intimate with him only because I'm not involved with anybody else, in other words, he is convenient. No, I'm not leading him on, he knows exactly where he stands and our relationship. I feel trapped into staying because I'm so attached to my child that I can't stand to be away from her and he's the same way. I know if I leave he will want to spend weekends or something with her and I can't handle that just yet ( I don't think he is responsible enough). So, do I stay and be miserable.