What are the top ten things in your opinion women/men do in their relationship that get on your nerves or cause discord? No punches below the belt people lets be mature I want to know the mature perspective not the boy girl ones. For me they are... #1. Leaving at night frequently to hang out with friends. 2. Keeping company with people with bad character and allowing them in the home. 3. Inviting unannounced guests in the house. 4. Disregard for my efforts to keep my home tidy. 5. Showing interest in other females. 6. Not confronting disagreements respectfully, but dismissing my concerns, making me seem like a trouble maker. 7. Not confessing but justifying clear error. 8. Being inconsiderate (i.e. If you know someone expects you be there or call) 9. Baseless assumptions 10. Not confident of my loyalty and devotion.