Yes, it can be done Prizefighter, we can definitely rise above our circumstances, and some must do this at such a young age. Being a parent now myself, sometimes we get caught up in heated arguments, so caught up that we forget about the young ears aound. Somehow we have to instill in the children that although the adults are not getting along, we still love them, and respect them enough to save the blowups for a time when the kids don't have to hear it. Much love to you little sis.