Peace Sistars, I have a question for you. To what extent are you willing to teach someone how to treat you? Often times we teach people how to treat us as we are getting to know someone. Sometimes the teaching can be conscious and sometimes it can be subconscious. This is something that can happen in any area of our lives (personal, professional etc.) Sometimes the teaching is a matter of setting a standard, holding firm in that position, and waiting to see if the person will live up to said standard. In the area of romantic relationships, I hear some sisters say that they are not willing to teach someone how to treat them. Whomever comes into their life should already KNOW how to treat them. It is my understanding that even though, these people are not consciously doing it, they are still teaching subconsciously. So the question then becomes to what extent is a person willing to do so? Any thoughts on this?