$$RICH$$ said:indeed very well said i truely agree and i too
didn't have to spank my kids like a daily meal
only when needed my son is 11 and had 3 spanking from
me in his young life but i will bare down when needed
so far he's a good child to be a boy growing up in the
heart of the Gangs & Drugs so i think the few spankings
did him good i just pray he continue his good ways and
stay on the path of GOD
I still don't agree with this spanking issue.
It never surprises me how people still don't think outside the cube. We live in a society where people wonder why there isn't more peace in this world. A society where we preach diplomacy over brute force. I've learned however to never to underestimate human hypocrisy. If we cannot communicate with people (our kids) on the very early level of development without using brute force then what does that say about us as a people. If you cannot communicate effectively on the basic social level ie. your family at home then how can you communicate with your fellow workers.
To put it plain and simple, it's basic microcasm and macrocasm. Don't be upset when children.. that eventually become adults... deal with discipline and frustration through violence. I can't speak for everyone, however I do know that I want optimum for my children. I'd rather prepare them with all the tools for combat and preparation in this world as possible. Whatever tools they choose or don't choose is up to them. We are affected by our environment. So I choose to raise my children in one that is free from gun play and violence. I know it is difficult to shield them from everything, but if I can put them one step ahead of the game.. then that increases their options of becoming even greater people.