1. cursed heart

    cursed heart Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    I was suspened for two weeks even though I paid for a premium memebership and I also rightfully won an extra month here during poetry night.
    CLARK IF I OFFENED YOU THAN I'M SORRY!
    I have seen some very segregated post and comments made here!
    I truly know that some play favorites!
    Queen,sonne,bidwhist if you think I was rude that what can I say?
    I am open and far from prudish and unreal.
    If you want to suspend me than refund me my money back and I will never appear on your wholesome site again!
     
  2. karmashines

    karmashines Banned MEMBER

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    Cursedheart,

    It is difficult for people to make a fair assessment without reference to the post(s) that caused problems.
     
  3. Destee

    Destee destee.com STAFF

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    Sister Cursed Heart ... i'm not familiar with all the particulars of this situation, but i understand that you called a Member out of his name, making very ugly accusations. He was offended, and you were not willing to apologize when repeatedly asked. This is not acceptable. You broke the rules.

    In regard to the Premium Membership you purchased on 03/21/06, it expired on 04/21/06, so you did in fact get the entire month you paid for. For the record though, Premium Membership does not buy you the right to break our rules or peace. You would not be the first Premium Member to be banned from here, for breaking our rules.

    Again, i'm not familiar with all the details, but i am going to stand by the Moderator's decision that your account be suspended for 2 weeks. You are more than welcome to return on May 10th, if you'd like. At that time, i'll be glad to give you the duration of the Premium Membership you won.

    Much Love and Peace Sister.

    :heart:

    Destee
     
  4. SAMURAI36

    SAMURAI36 Banned MEMBER

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    I'm going to miss you during these 2 weeks, Sister. Please know that you are in my thoughts.

    PEACE
     
  5. PoeticManifesta

    PoeticManifesta Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    I just have a question.. since I have seen ppl do far more than calling one out thier name on here, and recieve a warning.. just to see that justice is served.. did she recieve the same courtesy?:confused:
     
  6. Tantrum

    Tantrum Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    hmm interesting
     
  7. Destee

    Destee destee.com STAFF

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    To answer your question, yes, Sister Cursed Heart was given all the consideration and courtesies she was due.

    Sister PoeticManifesta ... may i ask you a couple of questions?

    If you have seen Members do far more than call folk out of their name, which is against our rules, why aren't there any threads down here with you bringing these violations to our attention?

    We have 11,000+ Members, almost 400,000 posts, and 13 Moderators who volunteer their time. We can't see everything. We need the Family to help us to keep our home respectful and peaceful. In the future, if you see Members violating the rules, will you bring it to our attention please ... when it happens?

    If you have brought violations to our attention, and we've not addressed them, please let me know that too.

    Thanks.

    :heart:

    Destee
     
  8. Omowale Jabali

    Omowale Jabali The Cosmic Journeyman PREMIUM MEMBER

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    Wow!

    I just noticed this.