This is my post to all of the Men at Destee.com who reguritate these types of posts. (Please Refer to the BRother BigTown Post about why do sistas want a thug and others like it, which complain about Black Women) 1. The Lumping of Black Women into one category: A Majority of the women, who are trying to roll with thugs, are not educated and usually are not all that special. I have never seen a Black Woman with a college education and a high paying salary with a supposed thug. I usually only see women who have no college education, and low paying jobs, with these thugs. If you notice the celeberity women that you claim who want thugs, usually on roll with thugs who have money. I really get sick of brothers always lumping my sisters into one category. I REPEAT EVERY BLACK WOMAN DOES NOT LIKE A THUG. 2. Your definition of a thug is mis-understood: The thug of todays time, is usually a grown *** man who does not work, stays with his mama, smokes weed and sags his jeans, and pretends to be a killer. These thugs that you talk about are your real loosers who never generate any revenuve, legal or illegally. They are simply mamas boys who will get mad at you if you step on their shoes. Most of these dudes have never even got into a fight or never have fired a weapon. Moreover, most classy black women do not even give these Men the time of day. 3. Maybe you should stop whining at destee.com: Instead of whining about the degraded image of Black Men. Do us all a favor and start showing that example. The quickest way to destroy the convoluted image of Black Masculinity is too show someone something else. Whinning about it at Destee.com is not going to solve anything. Maybe you should make a post about Positive Black Male Images, and why REAL sisters prefer those, than these mamas boy thugs you speak about. 4. I reccomend some Introspection: I remember I use to sit and complain about Black Women. Black women do not like me because I am a convicted felon, Black Women do not like me beacause of this and because of that. One day I realized that while I had 1 finger pointed, three fingers pointed back at me. After careful Introspection, I realized that I Manasic. The Black Man was the problem, and that the Black Woman was the Solution. Once I made a positive change within myself, I found the woman that I have now. In conclusion, I am really sick of some of the men at Destee.com, and I myself am included. I get tired of reading the same old reguirgated posts about sistas not liking me for this reason or that. What you men really need is a dose of reality, I took my dose and I am now a happy man.