Did you know this ladies? I for some odd reason have sexual conversations at work. I asked a guy while your having sex do you focus on your partner reaching your peak. This is his reply most men is not focusing on their partner but fantasizing about another. He had gotten other guys involved and they agreed with them. He also said that not to hurt our feelings some after having sex with an outstretched vagina that sometimes he masturbates to get himself off. I couldn't believe the things I was hearing ladies do you agree with this man theory. Do you think of your man while he is making love to you or fantasizing?