Black People : Think of your man while making love or fantasizing?

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  1. nevar

    nevar Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Did you know this ladies?

    I for some odd reason have sexual conversations at work. I asked a guy while your having sex do you focus on your partner reaching your peak. This is his reply most men is not focusing on their partner but fantasizing about another. He had gotten other guys involved and they agreed with them. He also said that not to hurt our feelings some after having sex with an outstretched vagina that sometimes he masturbates to get himself off. I couldn't believe the things I was hearing ladies do you agree with this man theory. Do you think of your man while he is making love to you or fantasizing?
     
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    do it right, no need to fantasize

    :fyi:i am a man. i never fantasized about another because i was always having sex with the one i wanted.
     
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    Let's say in the bedroom i'm with one so my focus is there....
     
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    LOL!....The next time you talk to those male co-workers, ask them if they've ever heard the old saying, "Fattening the frog for the snake?" :lol:



    The best thing for a woman to do is to send him home and call somebody who she KNOWS can get the job done. :cool:
     
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    I don't know about other brothas on here but I have to keep it a hundred. I've done that before, but it wasn't intentional. It happens just like it happens with women - sometimes they drift off and they have some other dude in their head while we think they are focused in on us.


    Where humans - and we will be physically attracted to other people at times. I had to tell a jealous X of mine - god didn't stop making beauty when he made you and like-wise the same goes for me.


    I think this happens to more people then they want to admit -


    Nye




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    Hmph!.....Some women have not only "fantasized" about another man but have also called out another man's name. :cool:
     
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    :geek:...well i used to hear jesus christ called out
     
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    Well now, you know that's not what I meant.


    ....You men have been known to "call on the name of Jesus" as well. lol



    ....and even "speak in tongues" at times too! :lol:
     
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    FYI

    as a trumpet player i have a trained tongue.
    this is true. we practice tongue control.
     
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