I see where i liked your post, but didn't respond to it ... so i will now.
Yes, our community is all about Black People ... but that does not mean others are not welcome.
There seems to be this mentality, that if one is pro black, they are anti white ... or anti everyone else.
That's not how i feel, it's not how i operate, and it's not the kind of community i ever wanted to build.
I don't think i have to hate or exclude anyone, to love my own people, build a site centered around us.
Yes ... i agree that it's impossible to tell "who is who or what" on an open, public web site / forum.
In spite of this, folk will get all up in arms over ... "who they think someone is" ... never knowing.
It's a space i can't do anything with. I refuse to get sucked into it, pretending i know anyone's race.
This is why we manage based on the respect demonstrated, no matter what color one claims to be.
Love You!
Destee