- Sep 3, 2011
I just wanted to reiterate what my point was and why I started this thread in conclusion the videos that i have been seeing on here pointing the finger at the black woman, the one about us dropping the ball, the one where the brother with the African dialect was talking with the Scorpio and i assume there are more...i didn't like them because it made us look like the culprit when we aren't. It is the black woman and mans responsibility its not our fault alone. The nature of the woman, we don't just get over things when we're upset. If we are hurt we need time to heal like anything else and that varies depending on how deep the wound is, have we had that? Have our men realized that rage and anger only clouds your ability to reason and to succumb to anger is a weakness when it causes you to behave foolishly and without thought. The same way people start replying to instigating remarks on here, all that negative energy is not good and I know it doesn't feel good, so we need to stop with the pointing fingers thing, thats all.