You know i watched some video's about black women and its like there's a war between sophisticated black men and black women of any creed. I don't think one gender is the blame! There is the Isrealite view that black women talk too much and are evil and need to shut their mouths etc etc. There are some men who have lost faith in all black women all together and resort to going afar to find foreign women. These confrontations of the issue should be directed at the follies of the men as well not just us. Where is your place in blame black man? Foreign women see black men as a sexual gratification. Sensual erotic lovers and good at arousing all their senses like a drug imo, but mock them behind their backs and ar usually not accepted or respected by their families unless they're ballin'! I spoke to a woman one time, foreign, Moroccan, and she told me black men will eat ANYTHING hahahaha she laughed at her conviction that he is a pig and an animal who will eat whatever is put before him and she mocked the way she has seen them eat "to her" like a dog. There is no race more disliked more all over the globe than Afrikans. Even when we are sincere good people our integrity is doubted and we are discredited! How dare our black men say we're are not worthy and foreign women are. And they also hold the onpion that you are obsessed with them and hate your own, is that pleasing to you? She doesn't even respect you and will only accept you if you are making X amount of dollars. Am I wrong? You are only valued to her when you look the part of the American dream brotha'. The Isrealites, blind followers, and whoever else is on this one-sided unjust soap box resort to calling us weave wearing, hoes and the like, they are speaking in general terms WTF. Any black woman walking down the street would be offended. I am offended because when I go outside this is the general opinion of those black men of me and I am nothing like that and it makes me vexed. There is nothing more annoying to me than someone telling me who I am. I may be on a journey to self awareness but I know what I am not! Amongst the population there exists women who are lost but want change however do not have what necessitates change. Give her the tools; people accept truth brought with love and respect. How is it that one tries to heal a broken spirit with memoirs of its ills? where is the mercy in guiding the unknowing, or confused. Public defilement is the answer and propaganda to devalue them altogether....the exceptional and young praiseworthy "black woman"! Where is the logic in this? That is what is being done by these videos, as notable white bystanders are holding their hands around their fat bellies laughing at this black man verbally attacking his dove with broken wings. Are the young influential ears of young black men and women not important too? Kick them while they're down. Score for the other team you just ran a touchdown in the defenses in-zone? My mom didn't raise me like that, as a matter of fact I raised myself mostly she "provided" for me. One thing she did show by example is sticking by her man even if I feel the wrong man, she was loyal and he took care of business. When I was in a relationship though I may have made bad character choices in my choice I was never self destructive in nature or actions. At a very young age, what most girls want and just keep getting played by men; especially older men preying on young innocent adolescent girls... so they give up, a commitment. Do women find this? I'll let you answer that. There are a number of manipulative men who only seek to fulfill their desire without the emotional, protective and psychological responsibility a woman requires. A terrible lack of patience. Men think women talk too much because it annoys them to sit and listen to try to understand where she is coming from in the first place and deal with her emotion especially when they know they have faltered. Men need to be direct; women too! SAY what you want! Some men like spoiling women others are more conservative. Just because a woman likes nice things doesn't mean she is a gold digger. Use your manipulative ways to mold her and give her a choice to be with you or without. I believe every woman would sacrifice Gucci and Dolce Gabbana and all the other white overpriced garbage for her King's love admiration and affection. I think black people belong together and need to get it together "BOTH OF US." The black woman didn't drop the ball, you slapped it out her hand and kicked it! I see how black women stick by their men even when they are wrong, they might hear our mouth but we are loyal. Women are submissive to men and like masculinity so where are the Black men and their ownership of us as "their" women. Why don't they fight for their women by educating them, guiding them with love and a gentle hand instead of leaving us bleeding on the gallows.