Black People : The War on Us Black women, Why are we Public ememy number one?

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  1. Feather

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    You know i watched some video's about black women and its like there's a war between sophisticated black men and black women of any creed. I don't think one gender is the blame! There is the Isrealite view that black women talk too much and are evil and need to shut their mouths etc etc. There are some men who have lost faith in all black women all together and resort to going afar to find foreign women. These confrontations of the issue should be directed at the follies of the men as well not just us. Where is your place in blame black man?

    Foreign women see black men as a sexual gratification. Sensual erotic lovers and good at arousing all their senses like a drug imo, but mock them behind their backs and ar usually not accepted or respected by their families unless they're ballin'! I spoke to a woman one time, foreign, Moroccan, and she told me black men will eat ANYTHING hahahaha she laughed at her conviction that he is a pig and an animal who will eat whatever is put before him and she mocked the way she has seen them eat "to her" like a dog. There is no race more disliked more all over the globe than Afrikans. Even when we are sincere good people our integrity is doubted and we are discredited! How dare our black men say we're are not worthy and foreign women are. And they also hold the onpion that you are obsessed with them and hate your own, is that pleasing to you? She doesn't even respect you and will only accept you if you are making X amount of dollars. Am I wrong? You are only valued to her when you look the part of the American dream brotha'.

    The Isrealites, blind followers, and whoever else is on this one-sided unjust soap box resort to calling us weave wearing, hoes and the like, they are speaking in general terms WTF. Any black woman walking down the street would be offended. I am offended because when I go outside this is the general opinion of those black men of me and I am nothing like that and it makes me vexed. There is nothing more annoying to me than someone telling me who I am. I may be on a journey to self awareness but I know what I am not! Amongst the population there exists women who are lost but want change however do not have what necessitates change. Give her the tools; people accept truth brought with love and respect. How is it that one tries to heal a broken spirit with memoirs of its ills? where is the mercy in guiding the unknowing, or confused. Public defilement is the answer and propaganda to devalue them altogether....the exceptional and young praiseworthy "black woman"! Where is the logic in this? That is what is being done by these videos, as notable white bystanders are holding their hands around their fat bellies laughing at this black man verbally attacking his dove with broken wings. Are the young influential ears of young black men and women not important too? Kick them while they're down. Score for the other team you just ran a touchdown in the defenses in-zone?

    My mom didn't raise me like that, as a matter of fact I raised myself mostly she "provided" for me. One thing she did show by example is sticking by her man even if I feel the wrong man, she was loyal and he took care of business. When I was in a relationship though I may have made bad character choices in my choice I was never self destructive in nature or actions. At a very young age, what most girls want and just keep getting played by men; especially older men preying on young innocent adolescent girls... so they give up, a commitment. Do women find this? I'll let you answer that. There are a number of manipulative men who only seek to fulfill their desire without the emotional, protective and psychological responsibility a woman requires. A terrible lack of patience. Men think women talk too much because it annoys them to sit and listen to try to understand where she is coming from in the first place and deal with her emotion especially when they know they have faltered.

    Men need to be direct; women too! SAY what you want! Some men like spoiling women others are more conservative. Just because a woman likes nice things doesn't mean she is a gold digger. Use your manipulative ways to mold her and give her a choice to be with you or without. I believe every woman would sacrifice Gucci and Dolce Gabbana and all the other white overpriced garbage for her King's love admiration and affection. I think black people belong together and need to get it together "BOTH OF US." The black woman didn't drop the ball, you slapped it out her hand and kicked it! I see how black women stick by their men even when they are wrong, they might hear our mouth but we are loyal. Women are submissive to men and like masculinity so where are the Black men and their ownership of us as "their" women. Why don't they fight for their women by educating them, guiding them with love and a gentle hand instead of leaving us bleeding on the gallows.
     
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    the black man is public enemy number 1...always has been in this country....
    the black woman is a close second though....

    look at the death rate of black men combined with the incarcerated rate and that will tell u the story...
    i know black women in this country are the most likely to get aids and thas messed up but black men still got it worse...

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    well im talking about among the black community, not america sweetie. it seems we're this and that and yall just got it together. When a woman is loved she will obey her husband. She likes to please him, so what these poor lost souls need is your love and love and support from one another, not condemnation for succumbing to strategic war on their minds like forever!
     
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    oh...my bust...
    but still...black women are getting advanced degrees at a way higher rate than black men and that equates to better jobs...now if ur talking about on the relationship end and black men not taking care of their children, i can definately see where u r coming from...but in the end thas not just hurting black women...it hurts all of us...because our children are our future...

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    the system of white supremacy oppresses us all.
    first step up is to recognize who the true enemy is.
     
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    yeah i just dont appreciate all these one sided videos defaming us as a whole:(
     
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    I don't expect BW or BM to give ground as far as who is responsible. The simple solution is to choose the best partner possible regardless to race or ethnic ground. Life is simply too short. I just don't waste my time trying to figure some of them out. It is a "game" for many of them. I blame 40 years of single-parenthood in the Black Community for the destructive pattern in Black relationships. Many of today's Blacks don't have a clue as to what is required in a succesful union or bond because the father was absent and the mother didn't do an adequate job raising their children. Both re responsible for the fiasco. IMHO, only 20% of Black adults are trained properly for a successful relationship. This is also a problem with other races & ethnic groups. And probably the main reasons why so many are searching across racially lines. Know for a fact that many WM are not happy with WW and are checking out Latinas, Asian women and even BW. And WW feel the same way toward WM and are looking at other men, especially BM. Even AW are interested in BM. Many WM are very much interested in BW. It is just the sign of the time. The games & tricks that BW used for so many decades to lure BM ... just don't work today because the dating market & pool have change dramatically.
     
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    peace

    The black woman is public enemy #1 in the black community because around the world the black man is public enemy #1 and his attitude towards you is a reflection of what he is feeling globally.

    I know what you're saying feather and i hear you. I have built with many Israelite's and see them teaching in the Bx and in manhattan on street corners and like you, i just don't get their point, nor do i agree their ideology or methods....

    I can't speak for how other woman see the black man, but i can speak on behalf of myself and say that i have no interest in anyone other than you, THE BLACK WOMAN!
     
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    peace

    - It is impossible to be truly happy outside of your own.
     
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    A clear example of how absolute powerlessness corrupts.
     
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