GOOD BLACK MEN ARE IN ABUNDANCE They are everywhere
Most of our women have their own ideal of what a good man is, and they usually tack on some sort of financial package to that..which disqualifies them as gold diggers
Answer me this... why can women of other ethnic backgrounds find good black men? When our own women can't even see us, they say we're gay or in jail... Yet they get pissed when they see carlton banks with a white woman... claiming he's a sell out
Good black men are going where they are wanted; we don't fit the stereotypical phasode of the modern coon amoral thug bafoon that everybody has fallen in love with...so we easily get looked past especially if we're not rich, OR pretending to be rich.
Why can't black women see us? Because they are looking for people with Swagg, money, or other entertaining things and acts men put on for undisclosed agendas.
They are choosing men based on if they have a degree or not. Do they have a job, a car, does he live by himself. How much he makes, how he dresses, is his sex the bomb...is he TALL..lol
ALL OF THE ABOVE DOES NOT SUPPORT LONGEVITY IN RELATIONSHIPS
Everything up there is trivial and makes for a faulty foundation for the cultivation of family
Instead they should be choosing men based off of CHARACTER... Is he honest? Is he dependable? Is he Responsible? Is he sincere?
These are attributes of a persons personality that does not change...A hurricane can destroy my job, and my house...my bank could close...but the person I have become will never change.
This is how people stay together for 50 years, the world can blow up around you, but the basic reasons why you chose each other remain the same.
God sends you presentations of men everyday... this is a good man...this is a bad man, and it up to the woman to make the right choice...and she will choose based off of the type of woman she is.
If the bad man has financial stability, and thats what she's interested in that is what she will choose regardless of HIS character. We've known black women to tolerate infidelity & domestic abuse to stay close to the money...no such luck with a broke man
The good man may be working his way through college, he may have unmeasurable talent, but doesn't know how to express it. He may live with his mother, and he may not the most sexually mature guy. He doesn't lie, he values his word as a man, and he is responsible. He doesn't like the spotlight, so he's rarely at the club, and he drives a 1998 Lancer...He's dressed in a polo, and khaki's at the sports bar...you look right past him...
This is the guy that will lead his family to prosperity, not some clown in your face trying to hit it tonight...
BW don't care about this guy...they're having fun with the clowns they date, when the chance at building prosperity and a family full of legacy passes them by
Whats really important...financial stability or a father for your children?
Only a gold digger or a simp would have trouble answering or think twice about this... the answer is obvious to everyone EXCEPT BLACK WOMEN
Most of our women have their own ideal of what a good man is, and they usually tack on some sort of financial package to that..which disqualifies them as gold diggers
Answer me this... why can women of other ethnic backgrounds find good black men? When our own women can't even see us, they say we're gay or in jail... Yet they get pissed when they see carlton banks with a white woman... claiming he's a sell out
Good black men are going where they are wanted; we don't fit the stereotypical phasode of the modern coon amoral thug bafoon that everybody has fallen in love with...so we easily get looked past especially if we're not rich, OR pretending to be rich.
Why can't black women see us? Because they are looking for people with Swagg, money, or other entertaining things and acts men put on for undisclosed agendas.
They are choosing men based on if they have a degree or not. Do they have a job, a car, does he live by himself. How much he makes, how he dresses, is his sex the bomb...is he TALL..lol
ALL OF THE ABOVE DOES NOT SUPPORT LONGEVITY IN RELATIONSHIPS
Everything up there is trivial and makes for a faulty foundation for the cultivation of family
Instead they should be choosing men based off of CHARACTER... Is he honest? Is he dependable? Is he Responsible? Is he sincere?
These are attributes of a persons personality that does not change...A hurricane can destroy my job, and my house...my bank could close...but the person I have become will never change.
This is how people stay together for 50 years, the world can blow up around you, but the basic reasons why you chose each other remain the same.
God sends you presentations of men everyday... this is a good man...this is a bad man, and it up to the woman to make the right choice...and she will choose based off of the type of woman she is.
If the bad man has financial stability, and thats what she's interested in that is what she will choose regardless of HIS character. We've known black women to tolerate infidelity & domestic abuse to stay close to the money...no such luck with a broke man
The good man may be working his way through college, he may have unmeasurable talent, but doesn't know how to express it. He may live with his mother, and he may not the most sexually mature guy. He doesn't lie, he values his word as a man, and he is responsible. He doesn't like the spotlight, so he's rarely at the club, and he drives a 1998 Lancer...He's dressed in a polo, and khaki's at the sports bar...you look right past him...
This is the guy that will lead his family to prosperity, not some clown in your face trying to hit it tonight...
BW don't care about this guy...they're having fun with the clowns they date, when the chance at building prosperity and a family full of legacy passes them by
Whats really important...financial stability or a father for your children?
Only a gold digger or a simp would have trouble answering or think twice about this... the answer is obvious to everyone EXCEPT BLACK WOMEN