Black Relationships : The Truth about Black Men and fatherhood
- Thread starter MRLEGEND
- Start date
- Replies 289
- Views 38K
Wrong choice!!!...LOL
Whatever...it takes two...if one made a wrong choice then that means two made the wrong choice!
It seems to me that the guys in this clip is not really facing reality. A real Father is worried about their kids day to day , week to week, month to month and year to year well being.
You cannot make a child give a hundred dollars a month and expect that to be sufficent enuff to raise a child....even the weekend time visits is not enuff... Stability is not a money order for a hundred dollars....Ok
Some men gets mad that the women is going out and assume she suppose to turn saint afteer having kids. LOL....sike...never get it twisted. Women today knows our role is more than just domestic...some of our men needs to know that their role is more than just reproducing ...especially when they having problems taking care of the ones they already have.
You guys are not gonna be making new families and living the good life while the first children is being neglected.
Yes their are some gold diggers and yes their are bi-sexual women who are raising children......If you are a fellow who finds hisself in this position you wont be the last and you not the first....The main focus should be the kids...making their quality of life better and to counter act whatever wrong you think is in their life.
If the momma going out...baby sit or mind your kid....use that time to bond and influence....stop hatting!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Make it work for the child!!!! Then maybe the moms will listen to what you have to say about how she is acting....cuz you helping her. See the mother need some shetime and if the father can help without being spitefull cuz she going to the club ...then maybe she will be more understanding when you guys fall short on the monetary side of things.
I'm just saying!!!
Peace
Whatever...it takes two...if one made a wrong choice then that means two made the wrong choice!
It seems to me that the guys in this clip is not really facing reality. A real Father is worried about their kids day to day , week to week, month to month and year to year well being.
You cannot make a child give a hundred dollars a month and expect that to be sufficent enuff to raise a child....even the weekend time visits is not enuff... Stability is not a money order for a hundred dollars....Ok
Some men gets mad that the women is going out and assume she suppose to turn saint afteer having kids. LOL....sike...never get it twisted. Women today knows our role is more than just domestic...some of our men needs to know that their role is more than just reproducing ...especially when they having problems taking care of the ones they already have.
You guys are not gonna be making new families and living the good life while the first children is being neglected.
Yes their are some gold diggers and yes their are bi-sexual women who are raising children......If you are a fellow who finds hisself in this position you wont be the last and you not the first....The main focus should be the kids...making their quality of life better and to counter act whatever wrong you think is in their life.
If the momma going out...baby sit or mind your kid....use that time to bond and influence....stop hatting!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Make it work for the child!!!! Then maybe the moms will listen to what you have to say about how she is acting....cuz you helping her. See the mother need some shetime and if the father can help without being spitefull cuz she going to the club ...then maybe she will be more understanding when you guys fall short on the monetary side of things.
I'm just saying!!!
Peace
I agree it does take two, but why would a woman risk bringing in an unwanted child with someone who is NOT going to be there
There are good men and women, then there are bad men and women, so It takes 2 is not the answer here...it is a given, and it's tangent...
The general concensus is, is that black men don't take care of their children. We know this to be untrue.
The truth is black women don't choose father material, people who wasn't gonna be their from the get-go.
There are millions of black men ready to be great fathers and husbands, but our women choose people based off of money/swagger...basically things that do not support longevity in a relationship.
The main focus SHOULD be the kids...and WOULD be if the person they were having sex with was an honorable men...how many honorable men do you see women chasing after?
So we have a nation of sexually free independant black women who do not VALUE A GOOD MAN.
It takes two is irrelevant to this subject...of course it takes two
There are good men and women, then there are bad men and women, so It takes 2 is not the answer here...it is a given, and it's tangent...
The general concensus is, is that black men don't take care of their children. We know this to be untrue.
The truth is black women don't choose father material, people who wasn't gonna be their from the get-go.
There are millions of black men ready to be great fathers and husbands, but our women choose people based off of money/swagger...basically things that do not support longevity in a relationship.
The main focus SHOULD be the kids...and WOULD be if the person they were having sex with was an honorable men...how many honorable men do you see women chasing after?
So we have a nation of sexually free independant black women who do not VALUE A GOOD MAN.
It takes two is irrelevant to this subject...of course it takes two
yoiu are so wrong for this old tired feeble attempt to shift blame; come on over here and talk to me for a minute.
think about this on your way over: WHERE ARE ALL THESE HONORABLE MEN THAT Y'ALL KEEP TALKING ABOUT?! why ain't they out in some forward visible place so that the sisters can make better choices?
think about this on your way over: WHERE ARE ALL THESE HONORABLE MEN THAT Y'ALL KEEP TALKING ABOUT?! why ain't they out in some forward visible place so that the sisters can make better choices?
Similar threads
Black Relationships :
The Truth
Black Relationships :
should i tell the truth
