Black Relationships : The Ties that Bind Us.

Discussion in 'Black Relationships' started by CreativeExpress, Aug 29, 2006.

  1. CreativeExpress

    CreativeExpress Active Member MEMBER

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    How come the line between "just friends," and "****, I wanna be with you" is alwyas blurred? Why can't women and men in these situations sometimes just can't seem to be one or the other?
     
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    phenomenalwoman Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    I hope this is what you are looking for. Anytime you bring sex in the mix, it's hard for both parties to see it that way. I can barely even have a platonic relationship with a male with out them trying to take it somewhere else.

    And generally we want something that we can't have.

    I guess they are both just human nature.
     
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    That's why I try to keep my male friends as ugly as possible(joke)
     
  4. CreativeExpress

    CreativeExpress Active Member MEMBER

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    I feel that

    That was definitely what I'm looking for, it does seem that men and women friendships are so constantly strained because there always seems to be a certain level of sexual tension
     
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    cursed heart Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Because it's natural to be attracted to the opposite sex!
    Especially if they are attractive physically and mentally!
    The mental attraction is why you are friends in the first place!
     
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