okay, this should be fun... i have a five y/o son. she still sleeps with me. i've even tried putting another bed in my room just for him. to wean him from my bed. i was about as successful with breastfeeding. let's say we stayed "connected" for 18 months. (ouch) the other morning we are laying in bed, we both sleep with no shirt. it's get too **** hot for me at night. he does as i do. if i sleep with a shirt, he does. if i don't... anyway the breasts aren't as firm as the use to be, no thanks to him. he looks over at my breast and says, "mom, shouldn't those be up there", as he's pointing to the touches the top of my chest.