I was dating this woman. We broke up and we kept talking for a good year. having our ups and downs. We wanted to try and make it work again. So I was flying down to see her and she asked me a question a week before I left. She asked me what if the "spark" is gone? That really upset me because when I think of a "spark" I think of something that isn't that meaningful. Sparks fizzile out after time. She and I talked about marriage, having kids, where we would live when we were married and how we would raise our kids. We named our kids. Now she's talking about a "spark!" Was my reaction justified or was I upset over nothing?