Great thread and thoughts Family!
I have seen / heard the angry, hurt, bitter Sister manifesting what is inside of her, trying to put it on Brothers, but it aint the Brother's fault.
Much of this particular bitter, angry, hurtful manifestation comes from Sisters letting men mistreat them, then are mad at him because he didn't stop on his own.
Men are usually clear regarding how they're going to treat a woman, letting you know right up front (or soon thereafter), what kind of treatment you'll get from him.
If he repeatedly makes you cry, cheats on you, lies to you, does not provide for you ... and you stay ... you're making your own self bitter, not him.
Remaining in these type of relationships, hoping he'll change, continually investing your self and resources, is guaranteed to produce bitterness.
Brothers do what Sisters let them do, and the more mistreatment you let men do to you, the more bitter you will be.
Sisters can avoid being bitter, by making better choices and decisions, regarding the men they allow in their lives.
The Sister that does not let Brothers repeatedly mistreat her, use her, etc., has no reason to manifest this energy.
Great Topic! Thanks for letting me share!
Much Love and Peace.
Destee
I have seen / heard the angry, hurt, bitter Sister manifesting what is inside of her, trying to put it on Brothers, but it aint the Brother's fault.
Much of this particular bitter, angry, hurtful manifestation comes from Sisters letting men mistreat them, then are mad at him because he didn't stop on his own.
Men are usually clear regarding how they're going to treat a woman, letting you know right up front (or soon thereafter), what kind of treatment you'll get from him.
If he repeatedly makes you cry, cheats on you, lies to you, does not provide for you ... and you stay ... you're making your own self bitter, not him.
Remaining in these type of relationships, hoping he'll change, continually investing your self and resources, is guaranteed to produce bitterness.
Brothers do what Sisters let them do, and the more mistreatment you let men do to you, the more bitter you will be.
Sisters can avoid being bitter, by making better choices and decisions, regarding the men they allow in their lives.
The Sister that does not let Brothers repeatedly mistreat her, use her, etc., has no reason to manifest this energy.
Great Topic! Thanks for letting me share!
Much Love and Peace.
Destee