Black Men : The Reason Black women are Angry at Black Men

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Most of us when asked why we are angry at Black men will have a bulging portfolio of experiences we've had with brothas that have left us jaded" playas, baby daddies that do a disappearing act on payday but come around when their collars are tight, etc.

But the overarching, one size fits all, end of the day reason Black women are angry at Black men is because you are the only ones we are allowed to be angry at.

We can't be angry at White men. That, as you well know, is not allowed. Talk about deadbeat dads. They not only raped us and forced us to have their babies but they sold our babies. I'm not talking about slavery on the plantation. I'm talking about today. Our babies are sold. Locked out of the job market. Mass incarcerated with felonies that strips them of their civil rights for actions that would hardly warrant misdemeanors if they were white. Neighborhood grocery stores stocked with the food whites didn't want. But while we can find so many reasons to be angry at Black men we look for every reason why we aren't angry at White men.

Being angry at Black men is not only allowed. It is rewarded.

Now brothas, this sista will not let a few knuckleheads to blind me to the wonder that walks the Earth, clothed in the skin of Black masculinity. You are a part of me. For better or worse
 

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Most of us when asked why we are angry at Black men will have a bulging portfolio of experiences we've had with brothas that have left us jaded" playas, baby daddies that do a disappearing act on payday but come around when their collars are tight, etc.

But the overarching, one size fits all, end of the day reason Black women are angry at Black men is because you are the only ones we are allowed to be angry at.

We can't be angry at White men. That, as you well know, is not allowed. Talk about deadbeat dads. They not only raped us and forced us to have their babies but they sold our babies. I'm not talking about slavery on the plantation. I'm talking about today. Our babies are sold. Locked out of the job market. Mass incarcerated with felonies that strips them of their civil rights for actions that would hardly warrant misdemeanors if they were white. Neighborhood grocery stores stocked with the food whites didn't want. But while we can find so many reasons to be angry at Black men we look for every reason why we aren't angry at White men.

Being angry at Black men is not only allowed. It is rewarded.

Now brothas, this sista will not let a few knuckleheads to blind me to the wonder that walks the Earth, clothed in the skin of Black masculinity. You are a part of me. For better or worse

So, who says we can't be mad at the white man? :10100:

I will say this....I'm not mad at black men....Not angry, not bitter or anything...No qualms

I can't say it because not all black men have done me wrong.

My dad is great man.

My daughter's father is a great father...

I've dated good black men, it just happened that we weren't meant to be...So what....big deal.

Now I don't know what black women you are talking about, it certainly isn't me.

And for the black women who are mad at other black men for doing them wrong, it isn't right them to sit here and say/think that all black men are like that.

Now I don't think most black women are ignoring what is being happened to the white man as far as society goes...They know and are mad, they just accept it...Just like some black women accept the fact that they are with the wrong man.

If that makes sense.
 

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The Reason Black women are Angry at Black Men...because you are the only ones we are allowed to be angry at.(Deep)

Most of us when asked why we are angry at Black men will have a bulging portfolio of experiences we've had with brothas that have left us jaded" playas, baby daddies that do a disappearing act on payday but come around when their collars are tight, etc.

But the overarching, one size fits all, end of the day reason Black women are angry at Black men is because you are the only ones we are allowed to be angry at.

We can't be angry at White men. That, as you well know, is not allowed. Talk about deadbeat dads. They not only raped us and forced us to have their babies but they sold our babies. I'm not talking about slavery on the plantation. I'm talking about today. Our babies are sold. Locked out of the job market. Mass incarcerated with felonies that strips them of their civil rights for actions that would hardly warrant misdemeanors if they were white. Neighborhood grocery stores stocked with the food whites didn't want. But while we can find so many reasons to be angry at Black men we look for every reason why we aren't angry at White men.

Being angry at Black men is not only allowed. It is rewarded.

Now brothas, this sista will not let a few knuckleheads to blind me to the wonder that walks the Earth, clothed in the skin of Black masculinity. You are a part of me. For better or worse




.......Thank you sister river, your honesty is deafening.

 

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So, who says we can't be mad at the white man? :10100:

I will say this....I'm not mad at black men....Not angry, not bitter or anything...No qualms

I can't say it because not all black men have done me wrong.

My dad is great man.

My daughter's father is a great father...

I've dated good black men, it just happened that we weren't meant to be...So what....big deal.

Now I don't know what black women you are talking about, it certainly isn't me.

And for the black women who are mad at other black men for doing them wrong, it isn't right them to sit here and say/think that all black men are like that.

Now I don't think most black women are ignoring what is being happened to the white man as far as society goes...They know and are mad, they just accept it...Just like some black women accept the fact that they are with the wrong man.

If that makes sense.
I should not have used the word "most." I am speaking of many Black women who may be just more outspoken in their anger than the majority of Black women who are not angry. Because of this outspokenness the issue had to be addressed.
 

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Most of us when asked why we are angry at Black men will have a bulging portfolio of experiences we've had with brothas that have left us jaded" playas, baby daddies that do a disappearing act on payday but come around when their collars are tight, etc.

But the overarching, one size fits all, end of the day reason Black women are angry at Black men is because you are the only ones we are allowed to be angry at.

We can't be angry at White men. That, as you well know, is not allowed. Talk about deadbeat dads. They not only raped us and forced us to have their babies but they sold our babies. I'm not talking about slavery on the plantation. I'm talking about today. Our babies are sold. Locked out of the job market. Mass incarcerated with felonies that strips them of their civil rights for actions that would hardly warrant misdemeanors if they were white. Neighborhood grocery stores stocked with the food whites didn't want. But while we can find so many reasons to be angry at Black men we look for every reason why we aren't angry at White men.

Being angry at Black men is not only allowed. It is rewarded.

Now brothas, this sista will not let a few knuckleheads to blind me to the wonder that walks the Earth, clothed in the skin of Black masculinity. You are a part of me. For better or worse

River, I love your last line, true dedication. I consider this thread an opportunity to reverse the negative tension towards brothas, so hopefully more sistas will share some love to illuminate that most of the women on Destee.com aren't in this category.

I urge the "angry sista" to heal from her wounds before getting back in the scene. Learn how to smile again, take the edge off and relax in his presence, so you can clearly see him as an individual without your experiences..just him........now, beautiful isn't he!

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