Had some strange occurences today. My third God-daughter announced she was gay. The first two well we never saw it coming... The mother's and father's say hardly nothing! The kids come to me cause they always have Aunt B keeps the confidences and that's how it stays. But my God-daughter #3's mother is having a fit. She said she just doesn't understand that ****! I know for a fact she has cousins that way... So why is she reacting this way? Was it something I did? Did somebody hurt my child! Is this a phase? For attention? Or has she gone buckwild? Well I don't have all the answer's but this I know is true. How the story ends is left up to you. You see I can't go judging folks for the difference of their ways...I been about love from the beginning of my days. From my days in theatre when the boys could work it better than us girls. I knew at an early age...These are indeed strange days. Why do we have to know if they were born that way, if this is a choice or did somebody make them that way. My answer is patented and approved... YOU LOVE THEM ANYWAY! So many questions that no one really wants the answer too... I pose this very seriously "What if it was you?" Do you think it's a choice to be persecuted and abused. Outted with no pity cause you used the wrong hand the wrong way! Left handed is what they use to call the men down south! Sugar in their tanks , now that's just rank! Dyke!!!!!!!! I never liked that term... Seems like to me as folks of color we need to stop judging one another!! So I say this with respect,when your love ones you reject. What do you expect... When you asked the question... that you never wanted the answer too... So true! "What if it was your child? What if it was you?" Sitting in judgement is not our place... Cause remember it's the same God that we all have to face! Confusion,delusion, deviation from the norm... How do we know it's not the way that they were born? Well I don't have all the answer's but I know this to be true! You would have a different attitude if the child belonged to you! BJS(C)2004 *An injustice to one is an injustice to us all! ...PRO-LOVE!