I do not see any utility whatsoever in speaking negative, for any reason
Not even for abused children!?
Whew! Brother, this is the key to why we suffer. You speak volumes here. To see you put to script that "you do not see any utility whatsoever in speaking negative, for any reason,..." in regards to even Black children being abused is just unbelievable. But this is the reason why the Roman Empire was able to rise to such great power. I too believe in this mission statement of "About Loving, Encouraging, Embracing, Teaching and Building With Black People." and if Black abused chldren are not apart of this mission it becomes dead.
No, I am not trying to persuade about the ills of other races of women or promote a Black victimized child to havrbor Self Hate because they've been abused by Black people. But brother you sttement is so hypocritical when wyou ask the question
"Why is it that when our Black Women do things that others do she is brought to the gallows? That's not fair to her" and I
On the one hand you say that the Black Woman was first and perfect but then and then on the other hand say it's not fair to higlight 'imperfections' that have a bearing on our collective whole in comparison to other women, who did not come first. If you are going to cite other women issues, you have to cite the first otherwise the dirt throw against our people are covered up under layers and layers of corrupting. i would definitely like to be viewed as perfect or 'perfection' on merit.
I do believe it is so wrong to put ills on us, Black women for the sins of our ancestors and for sin that has nothing to do with us, but I believe that the reason why this is done continually has to do with deep seeded history that has been conveniently suppressed so that this government can benefit from the negative Black women that they have elevated to continually throw down Black positivity. Now if you want to call a victim of this kind of White Supremacist abuse Self Hate then go on. When a Black woman, who has had no children and not married is elevated to become a judge for family court and tears down a Black family that supports this systems objective. Because of that judge, I had to endure a lawyer, a White man, tell me in laughter that that judge does not like me, [hates me] because in her opinion, I should not support my husband , and this was the reason she seized my children, and locked me and my husband up, and gave them over to foster care, and this does nothing for Black positivity. There was nothing that wrong with my husband at that time, he just lost his job at that time, that's all, and we went on welfare.
All because of this matrilineal belief, certain black women think they can get their way and ecome vindicated for some strange reason against their issues with Black men for something that has perhaps been done to them, but to attack ohters in this quest is how the system has been able to suppress Black people. I didn't have anything to do with that Black woman being single or any of the other social service workers being single either, for they came at me in swarms.
My husband, a Black man, earned his education in chemistry under a tough educational program and was the only Black out of about 60 graduates in the chemistry department. And every job he worked, he was pretty much the only Black man in the enitre company where he was always outnumbered by many other cultures of people mostly White employees. There would be a handful of Black women that were in these jobs too and who always spoke well of him. And whenever he would get fired or etc., the sisters always supported him. And he still keeps in touch with these sisters. So, again, I believe there needs to be a distinction made between the kind of Black women that have been used to support this system and the kind that support Black Unity. There is some deeper issues too that I think need to be brought out.
It would be nice to cover up dirt and still build but if the kind of dirt covered up is the core of the problem, you can't cover it up and get anywhere.