Her: I wonder what he thinks of me? Can he see me as his wife? His other half? Hmmmm such a delicious man and I sure want him in my life. Lord can I have that desire of my heart? Him: She's staring at me with that strange glint in her eyes again. I hear wedding bells faintly. Well she is rather attractive and we do connect on many levels. I could see myself with her. She could indeed be the woman for me. God, mom's warned me about this part in life comming up. Is she the one for me or not? Her: God I just want a man I can love and who loves me. No B.S, no stress, just love and devotion. He seems like a good, good, christian man. Is he the one for me Lord? Him: Her as the mother of my kids? Thats a real good sight to behold. Us together, growing old and loving each other. Hmmmm not bad at all. She is real beautiful inside and out, but is she the one for me? Both: DEAR GOD WE JUST WANT TO BE IN THE CENTER OF YOUR WILL. IS HE/SHE THE RIGHT ONE FOR ME TO SHARE MY LIFE WITH? "The Effectual Fervent prayers of the righteous availeth much." James 5:16 This is how it should be when choosing a mate.