Just out of curiousity have any of guys ever beeninvolved with female much younger than yourself? And by 'involved' I dont neccessarily means sexually. I'm not sure if this should be in another forum or not but.. anywhoo I am currently 17 years old, I will be 18 next month. I'm from Philadelphia and I work in Center City. On my lunch break one day I was approached by a guy who happens to be 30 (31 next month).. I told him my age and he didn't seem to mind or care. In any case.. we've been to lunch several times, to the movies, to the mall etc etc. I was sorta hesitant about doing lunch and such with him at first but I figured.. its lunch and it all was innocent. We've never done anything. He's never bought up sex and besides a hug and a peck we've never been intimate. He does compliment my body every now and then. After a while, I began to wonder to myself.. Whats the point of hanging with him?... First of all, our platonic relationship couldn't dare elevated to something a bit more serious becuase for one I'm only 17.. and in no way could I bring a 30 year old guy home to meet the folks.. It seems like in my opinion that its nothing a 30 year old guy could possible want w/ a 17year old female.. but one thing.. and although that one thing has never came up.. and isn't a factor it just has me thinking... I will say I feel comfortable when I'm with him and I don't feel pressured nor feel like i'm puttin myself in harm's way.. soo thats not the case. I found myself opening up to him a lot and I can confide in him. I am the youngest of 6 boys.. yes I have 6 brothers ..Over the years I really got a perception of guys many girls don't see. I've grown up with them and now as a young lady they are constantly reminding me about certain things. So I think its safe to say that I know how guys work.. to a degree any way... I'm starting to think the 'relationship' for lack of a better word is sorta strange.. what do yall think?.. I mean he's an amazing guy, and extremely nice... but is there something up, i'm not aware of.. Don't get me wrong I don't suspect anything or whatever.. i just dont know..