Black People : The Emasculation of Men ( Are Men Today Becoming TOO Feminine)?

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Al D

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No, this is what we are raising




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First off, thank you for taking the time to respond Kemetstry.
Your statement is true my brother, very true but I also feel that it is also what we are not raising. We aren't raising them to be strong dominant responsible masculine men. There are several factors that contribute to that but I would venture to say that the absence of a male figure in a young male child's life is probably at the top of the list. We need men to play an active role in raising a male child because there are just too many other influences out there with the emasculation playing a crucial role. I guess the role of men has been diminishing and it is constantly changing in todays society.
 

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First off, thank you for taking the time to respond Kemetstry.
Your statement is true my brother, very true but I also feel that it is also what we are not raising. We aren't raising them to be strong dominant responsible masculine men. There are several factors that contribute to that but I would venture to say that the absence of a male figure in a young male child's life is probably at the top of the list. We need men to play an active role in raising a male child because there are just too many other influences out there with the emasculation playing a crucial role. I guess the role of men has been diminishing and it is constantly changing in todays society.
I agree that lack of male influence in a young boy's life is a contributing factor in the neutering of our males.

The black male figure is absent in many homes, so mothers have to take the
role of mother and father. What I would say is this, it is better not to have a male figure than to have one that is a bad influence.

The black woman today must start to be more responsible. Too many of our black women are becoming mothers some with children with three or more men. This must stop. Women should open their eyes and close their feet. Men need to value their women else if this situation continue we will find many more males being brought up under the influence of just the mother.

The society in which we live today shows that there is a desperate need for fathers in the home.
On the other hand there are women who have such control over their men that the male figure is nothing more than a boy in the yard. I believe that the black family structure needs a good overhauling and this must be done as a sense of urgency.

Black women must give their men the respect due to them. I have witness over the years women treating their men in a disrespectful way not only in their homes but in public view. If we want to develop strong men and not wimps fathers must take their role in the home seriously.
 

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I agree that lack of male influence in a young boy's life is a contributing factor in the neutering of our males.

The black male figure is absent in many homes, so mothers have to take the
role of mother and father. What I would say is this, it is better not to have a male figure than to have one that is a bad influence.

The black woman today must start to be more responsible. Too many of our black women are becoming mothers some with children with three or more men. This must stop. Women should open their eyes and close their feet. Men need to value their women else if this situation continue we will find many more males being brought up under the influence of just the mother.

The society in which we live today shows that there is a desperate need for fathers in the home.
On the other hand there are women who have such control over their men that the male figure is nothing more than a boy in the yard. I believe that the black family structure needs a good overhauling and this must be done as a sense of urgency.

Black women must give their men the respect due to them. I have witness over the years women treating their men in a disrespectful way not only in their homes but in public view. If we want to develop strong men and not wimps fathers must take their role in the home seriously.
Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts dunwiddat. The moniker says it all and all that I can do while reading your profound words is nod my head man. I will say this one thing though in terms of being more responsible in that it falls on the shoulders of both male and female.
There is is an equal responsibility that falls squarely on both; in the house, in public as well as in the bed. Appreciated.
 

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