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Absolutely but we are so far from our rightful place that concept is mute. Also the black woman was the glue that held the family together Where is she now?
Still holding down the fort. Where's the brutha?
Absolutely but we are so far from our rightful place that concept is mute. Also the black woman was the glue that held the family together Where is she now?
What's the "most selfish" thing the who, what, where, huh? father did to the child? Or is it all good for the brutha?
Uh, btw, why no chiding the brutha for HIS bad choice of the chickenhead you describe to be the mother of his offspring? Or are you stuck in the 1950's where it's the "girl's fault" when she finds herself pregnant?
What's the "most selfish" thing the who, what, where, huh? father did to the child? Or is it all good for the brutha?
Uh, btw, why no chiding the brutha for HIS bad choice of the chickenhead you describe to be the mother of his offspring? Or are you stuck in the 1950's where it's the "girl's fault" when she finds herself pregnant?
Brother Shaka .... really ... ?? ... you're looking at women's bad choices in this situation?
I read where one Brother said ... 'I didn't intend to have this many, it just happened.' ...
And one of the Mother's said ... "her knees buckled when a prosecutor told her that the father of her child had 20 other children. During the whole relationship, I only knew of four children."
You want to put on a Sister, what only the Brother knows? Really?
Say it aint so ...
Destee
Context is everything,
the culprit in all of this is actually the State of Tennesee and the Federal Government. Trust and
believe that if State Assistance for food and shelter did not exist in the lax form that it currently
does, none of these people would put themselves out there like this. The fact that these kids are
all healthy and sheltered and taken care of by the State makes it ok for these dudes to keep pulling
the trigger. State assistance negatively impacts culture by rewarding behaviors that are not in the
long term interest of healthy, productive, community.
that said..
I can't look at kids as problems.. I don't see this as some heinous crime.. 81 children are 81
children... regardless of who the Father is.. If the State would stay out of it, and the community
was to bear the full weight of these kinds of choices, as painful as that would be, the result
would be cultural learning.. Starving kids and families would give way to better decisions.. to
different values..
- Peace.