Black Parenting : Tennessee's deadbeat dads: The three men who have fathered 78 children with 46 different women... an

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  1. shaka64

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    Brother Shaka .... really ... ?? ... you're looking at women's bad choices in this situation?

    I read where one Brother said ... 'I didn't intend to have this many, it just happened.' ... :brickwall:

    And one of the Mother's said ... "her knees buckled when a prosecutor told her that the father of her child had 20 other children. During the whole relationship, I only knew of four children."

    You want to put on a Sister, what only the Brother knows? Really?

    Say it aint so ... :facepalm:

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    that has not worked in other countries. what has worked is education of women.
    more highly educated women bear fewer children.
     
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    Absolutely!! When will women realize that there is a plethora of men that do not take responsibility for their children. I am sure that there were many clues that the men were who they turned out to be. Black women think they can change men into what they want them to be. (LOL) And Yes I said make better choices. Before you lay down do the research take some time before you give it up. Stop letting that itch rule you. Why are there so many baby daddies and baby mamas now? And furthermore with all the STDs and AIDS why are so many people having unprotected sex (women)? How come they did not have an ABORTION? Yes that is a choice all women have. Most of them are working sorry jobs ($8-10 per hour). Yet they want and have babies. Make no mistake the men involved are pitiful and need to be dealt with. Their penalty should be reached by a panel of (angry black women). The bottom line is women mostly get stuck with the kids, so they should take every precaution to protect themselves from these pitiful men. After reading this article some woman will lay with a man they barely know and have unprotected sex. Nine months later she is a baby mama and old boy is gone. I also have a problem with these BRICK head young girls that think they know everything and start having sex, get pregnant by a young man still living with his mama. They have a baby and have the audacity to label the young man a dead beat dad. First off he was a deadbeat young man you chose to make him a dad. If you had a baby (and I am stretching it) under the age of 18 and you were not raped. You already proved to be a hard headed female that most of the time did not listen to any adults in your life and did it your way. Now look at you. That is the most selfish thing you could have done to a child. You have no resources, limited knowledge, no husband, no money saved, and a bunch of unfulfilled dreams and desires. Dreams & desires that you will place above taking care of the child. ( going to the club, hanging out and doing what teenagers do). There are exceptions to the rule but they are far and in between. Should I go on?
     
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    when will men stop blaming the victims?
     
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    You are only a victim for so long then you become part of the problem. Women have too many examples to keep getting caught. This situation has two willing participants. By the way just because the woman is stuck with the child does not mean she is a mother.
     
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    so why not talk about both of them?
     
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    I did But the woman seems to suffer the most and she should think more of her own well being
     
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    Is this to suggest starting a Gender War, on site, elder?



     
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