Destee, I posted this for a couple of reasons....some that has to do with myself in relation to the group and the lead singer. The second reason is because I found out about 6 years ago that this brother is Makeda's direct relative although she doesn't know it yet. Makeda's doing okay although I prefer at this point not to discuss her. She went the Ellen Degeneres route with her life...so I'll leave it at that. Now I see why Queentswana didn't want her around her other relatives.