Well...I think jamesfrmphilly can best answer that question...especially as it RE~lates to the BE~haviors of some M.A.D.
I would venture to say tho....words like "thug", "baller", "player" comes to mind..and the BE~haviors associated with same.
blackman (or any other) who become involved in intimate relationships with woman for the sole purpose of taking what they can get for selves and not giving in return.
Is this right Jamesfrmphilly:?:
and yes..this would be my definition....a taker of emotional, physical, economic, resources and giving little to none in return. They may and typically do, count the physical (i.e the penis) contribution sufficient while taking ALL from the woman.