Black Relationships : Teach M.E. tonite!

[truetothecause]

Teach M.E. tonite

Greetings! ImHotep!

To all the Brothers, Warrior Kings, Tired and Energized, Men of Afreekan Descent (M.A,D.)

Can you help a Sistah out?

I'd like to know EXACTLY what makes a "GOOD MAN"
I mean, say...I'm out at the mall, or on a call, or out taking a stoll, or sitting in an indoor cafe having tea to chase away the cold...

I see you, you see me. We want to take if further..

HOW will I KNOW that YOU are a "GOOD" man:?:

What are the things you SAY
What are the things you DO

Feel Free to compare with the PIMP

How will I know the difference:?:

Be as specific as possible please.

What makes a man a "GOOD" man


Listening to Learn and Learning to Listen~ Abena....M.E.

 

[jamesfrmphilly]

I'd like to know EXACTLY what makes a "GOOD MAN"

as a black woman, you are supposed to know this already...

 

[hiphopolx]

Your purpose for him.
(I know it sounds cold but thats just on the surface )
You know what makes you happy and or at peace (I'm assuming).
Peace and happiness is/should be everyone's goal on a conscious level. If it isn't then or can happen B4 you realize where you are headed on your map (your life). (e.g. the wrong turns ppl make when they believe the goal in life is too make alot of money......... if you sit back and watch them they can provide a good laugh, but most of the time it's sad )

What does your man, or prospective man, need to be so that he may not impede on your life goals or even better, help you with your life goals.


You may have everything now and just need someone responsible enough to share it with.

"I see you, you see me. We want to take if further..

HOW will I KNOW that YOU are a "GOOD" man"

Ahh TIME,TIMEand moreTIME (your mental notations of his actions/movements from a/some fixed reference point)
my humble advice........
don't be too judge-mental of the ''why'' of his actions be more focused on if those actions will interfere with your life goals.

(for example his need to watch the game, hang with the fellas from time to time, improving on his ride, or entertainment music and/or video equipment, make that perfect song (hood banger), find the "Last Dragon" martial art stage or if you run into that guy whose bent on building that time machine, just let him be a man)
(my particular goal is world domination so my wife is just gonna have to deal with it!!! and in turn I'll make sure I take out the garbage on schedule) you may not understand the why from your prospective of your lives and you wouldn't want to impede on his/your freedom to pursue their goal in life (from a ''I am you, and you are me'' point of view)

Peace

 

[truetothecause]

Your purpose for him.
(I know it sounds cold but thats just on the surface )
You know what makes you happy and or at peace (I'm assuming).
Peace and happiness is/should be everyone's goal on a conscious level. If it isn't then or can happen B4 you realize where you are headed on your map (your life). (e.g. the wrong turns ppl make when they believe the goal in life is too make alot of money......... if you sit back and watch them they can provide a good laugh, but most of the time it's sad )

What does your man, or prospective man, need to be so that he may not impede on your life goals or even better, help you with your life goals.


You may have everything now and just need someone responsible enough to share it with.

"I see you, you see me. We want to take if further..

HOW will I KNOW that YOU are a "GOOD" man"

Ahh TIME,TIMEand moreTIME (your mental notations of his actions/movements from a/some fixed reference point)
my humble advice........
don't be too judge-mental of the ''why'' of his actions be more focused on if those actions will interfere with your life goals.

(for example his need to watch the game, hang with the fellas from time to time, improving on his ride, or entertainment music and/or video equipment, make that perfect song (hood banger), find the "Last Dragon" martial art stage or if you run into that guy whose bent on building that time machine, just let him be a man)
(my particular goal is world domination so my wife is just gonna have to deal with it!!! and in turn I'll make sure I take out the garbage on schedule) you may not understand the why from your prospective of your lives and you wouldn't want to impede on his/your freedom to pursue their goal in life (from a ''I am you, and you are me'' point of view)

Peace

Medase Pa for sharing!.


I'm on da run right now and PLAN to come back to this.

Till next time...

Stay Safe and Strong in the Struggle for I/Unity

 

[truetothecause]

as a black woman, you are supposed to know this already...

yeah well.."supposed" is the key word here. Maybe I don't. And I learned..
"if you DON'T KNOW you better ask smaddy".

If I knew...I prolly would not have "chosen" pimps





my humble advice........
don't be too judge-mental of the ''why'' of his actions be more focused on if those actions will interfere with your life goals.

(for example his need to watch the game, hang with the fellas from time to time, improving on his ride, or entertainment music and/or video equipment, make that perfect song (hood banger), find the "Last Dragon" martial art stage or if you run into that guy whose bent on building that time machine, just let him be a man)
(my particular goal is world domination so my wife is just gonna have to deal with it!!! and in turn I'll make sure I take out the garbage on schedule) you may not understand the why from your prospective of your lives and you wouldn't want to impede on his/your freedom to pursue their goal in life (from a ''I am you, and you are me'' point of view)

Yes...judge-mental-ness is problematic...impo
yet...i DO need to "judge" his "Behaviors" in order to know the difference between "good man" vs. "pimp"

How do I KNOW the difference?

You may have everything now and just need someone responsible enough to share it with

Yes...it IS about the "sharing" that I am interested in...Him sharing with M.E. and M.E. with him.

"I show you love, you show me love" (Sister Joyce, H.Y.P.O.C.R.I.S.Y.)