Black Parenting : Tamir Rice, Mike Brown, Trayvon Martin and single head of household

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  1. serious brother

    serious brother Banned MEMBER

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    The vast majority of prisoners come from single head of households.

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    The overwhelming number of prisoners are Black Americans.

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    72% of Black American children come from single head of households.

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    The majority of unwanted pregnant Black Americans come from single head of households.

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    The majority of Black American juveniles are from single head of households.

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    Tamir Rice, Mike Brown and Trayvon Martin came from single head of households.

    It is time for Black America to stop finding easy excuses to justify being a single parent and draw a line of moral conduct.
     
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    Too bad you've chosen to make obviously biased comments about some of our most stressed out relations:

    Worse is you also blame their children for what others did to them too?!?

    I always expect more intelligent and thoughtful replies from other
    destee posters than that!!
     
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    The comments are factual and if you took the time to look at statistical data, you would realize 70% of Black American children come from single parent homes and most likely the next crop of America's prison population, the next crop of unwanted pregnancies and the next crop of single head of households.

    It is called psychosocial engineering and evidently that is something foreign to you or you would have not made such unfounded assertions.

    Next time, do your research and stop making excuses and condoning Willie Lynch tactics of divide and conquer.

    That's right, I said Willie Lynch tactics of divide and conquer.

    As Black Americans we have been taught domestic law, domestic relations, domestic courts, domestic rights and taught everything on how to break up a marriage but,
    but,
    but,
    We have never heard of DOMESTIC MANAGEMEN T!

    Why? There is a financial incentive to keep Black Americans dysfunctional.

    The state get fed funds for every single head of household.

    The state gets fed funds for every prisoner

    The state get fed funds for every juvenile and they are enlisting our children in the judicial system while they are still in elementary school.

    I thought Destee members were far more aware of the contents within the prison industrial complex but, based upon your comments, this must not be the case.
     
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    You said "...blame their children for what others did to them".

    Naw! What you have stated in this quote is known as "social inhibition", "victimizing the victim", "dehumanization" and "guilt tripping the victim".

    When we as Black Americans know the game being played against us, we can formulate an opposing game plan instead of standing out in left field not knowing jack squat!
     
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    I am a single parent and meeting the task of raising my children alone, could be considered justification I suppose.

    What exactly do you mean by us "finding easy excuses to justify being a single parent"?

    What would you propose we do regarding this moral conduct or lack thereof?

    Looking forward to the discussion. Thanks in advance.

    Much Love and Peace.

    :heart:

    Destee
     
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    serious brother ... i'd like to know too ... what exactly is the moral conduct that is out of order?

    Point to it specifically please.

    Thanks Bunches!

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    Destee
     
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    Please do reply back with more rhetoric ad naseum...

    fyi
     
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    I am sitting here with tears swelling up in my eyes because, our people are suffering for the lack of knowledge.

    Almost 400 years of slavery programming us to be breeders or studs and watching our children being sold off as livestock is not a coincident, it was a systematic effort to keep the black family dysfunctional.

    After slavery, this programming was reinforced by lynching Black Americans, chain gangs and keeping the Black American hostage to Manipulation by fear.

    Calling ourselves *****, *******, hoes, dogs and bastards is just the tip of the iceberg called "dehumanization of self".

    Destee, just look at what we have heard echoed within our mind for the last 50 years in the form of music or rap. We have gone from Scrub to My Prerogative.

    We are people of rhythm and that rhythm can be used to manipulate our moral compass.

    WATCH THIS!

    They murder our leaders of morality i.e. Malcolm X and MLK. Immediately thereafter, here comes a Superfly, The Mack, Foxy Brown and a bad ..shut your mouth Shaft.

    MUSIC

    Joseph Mengele used music to manipulate the mind of holocaust victims.

    In short, we have been programmed since slavery and with a snap of the finger, a few trigger words and off into the wild blue wonder we react accordingly. Some of our most informed brothers and sisters have rendered a diagnosis of post traumatic slavery disorder.

    Lastly, if I had the key or solution, it would not work because, to deprogram Black Americans, it would take another 800 years and we have yet to even begin. Additionally, effective deprogramming requires the target to be completely removed from the source of programming.

    Oh that my head was waters and mine eyes a fountain of tears that I may weep for the slain children if my people
     
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    uhhh ... yeah ... but you didn't answer any of my questions.

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    Destee
     
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    And I also dismiss cheap shots as being unworthy of my further replies...
     
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