I've realized that some of us take people who are good for granted. We misuse our good people and treat the "bad" people with the utmost respect. I have thought about how some of us say we want someone good, but when we get that, we don't know how to treat them, and we want to fall back onto people who are no good for us. It's just not fair to the ones who mean well. We always seem to be the ones who get left for those who are lesser than us. And then those very same people are the ones who will be misarable for the rest of their days. I was talking to someone some time ago about that. I told him that maybe he should think about what's good for him and what isn't to save him some misery in his life. I hung out with him and come to find out, he has feelings for his ex girlfriend still, which I did not know. He didn't seem happy with what I was telling him and that he feels that I am looking at him as the bad guy, when I wasn't. I was trying to tell him how I felt, and all I wanted him to do was listen just like I was willing to do with him. He tells me he likes a woman who is honest, knows what she wants in her life, but it seems that he has feelings for someone who says she wants to be with him and then a month later, abruptly broke it off. That's why he really needs to take a look and see if that is what he really wants. And if he doesn't want that, then what is he going to do about it. He wanted to go to bed, and he seemed upset at me, but he said he was upset at himself. Things between him and I have not been the same since. Other than that, we need to stop taking our good folks for granted. I just wanted to get that off my chest, you know? That's all I have to say for now. P.S........ Why do we throw away what's good for us?