Black Women : Taking Sex Out of the Equation...

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SwagII

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It's understood that with the average male female relationship physical intimate sex is usually a priority, and it may not be equal in priorities, etc. But for the moment,:facepalm: lets omit sexual intimacy, etc. Now, make me or anybody else understand, "what then would a male desire a female for?" Would it still be for companionship? Will he still desire her as if the sex was still on the table and or a curious intimate part of the relationship? Just curious.. :facepalm:
 
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It's understood that with the average male female relationship physical intimate sex is usually a priority..

I disagree with this premise. Because Sex happens, does not mean that sex is "the priority". Evidenced by the fact that Homosexual relationships also feature "Sex". Further evidenced by the fact that.. even without females or other males.. Men still have a compulsion to ejaculate... which is why the porn industry is so profitable.

So.. minus that premise, and injecting a bit of humanity.. your question then becomes:

Why would a man desire to be with a woman?

It depends on the man and the woman. There are many different needs that we fill through relationships with others. Most of those relationships are not sexual.

So there are as many answers to this question as their are individuals.. but if this is a real question.. you can find the answer
in your own experience.. by analyzing the non-sexual relationships you have with women. For example.. your sister.. your cousin.. your classmates.. your co-workers.. your mother.. Destee.. to name a few.

-Context is everything.
 

SwagII

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I disagree with this premise. Because Sex happens, does not mean that sex is "the priority". Evidenced by the fact that Homosexual relationships also feature "Sex". Further evidenced by the fact that.. even without females or other males.. Men still have a compulsion to ejaculate... which is why the porn industry is so profitable.

So.. minus that premise, and injecting a bit of humanity.. your question then becomes:

Why would a man desire to be with a woman?

It depends on the man and the woman. There are many different needs that we fill through relationships with others. Most of those relationships are not sexual.

So there are as many answers to this question as their are individuals.. but if this is a real question.. you can find the answer
in your own experience.. by analyzing the non-sexual relationships you have with women. For example.. your sister.. your cousin.. your classmates.. your co-workers.. your mother.. Destee.. to name a few.

-Context is everything.
Seriously bro...
 

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It's understood that with the average male female relationship physical intimate sex is usually a priority, and it may not be equal in priorities, etc. But for the moment,:facepalm: lets omit sexual intimacy, etc. Now, make me or anybody else understand, "what then would a male desire a female for?" Would it still be for companionship? Will he still desire her as if the sex was still on the table and or a curious intimate part of the relationship? Just curious.. :facepalm:


Sex is not intimacy for a man. IJS




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