Black Relationships : SUBTLE I LOVE U'S......

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  1. spicybrown

    spicybrown Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    [Hello, Sistas at Destee's, as we all know, Ebony love is in dire need of being replenished. What are some of the things you ladies say or do on the daily to show that special man in your life that he's your everythang-(You love him)? :love:
     
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    Tell him how much I value and love him everyday.
     
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    Not only do i make it my biznezz to tell My Beautiful King I love him ERE'day, I show him. Like in the eveningbefore i go to sleep, i run a bath for him when so he can just get in and relax after a hard days work. I like to do nice things for him cuz he does for me GENUINELY. I love him:kiss2:
     
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    I would have to say burnin' something in the kitchen is a bigger I love you than anything else. I'm talkin about 5-6 pieces of fried chicken, them ghetto tacos(everythang in them), some sticky rice with a slab of meat just barely rare. He's an EATER, omelettes for days....lol. You know what they say-"The best way to a man's heart".......:cook: . Top that off with a tender back rub on a full belly:kiss2:
     
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    I stopped degrading his character.
    Continue to bring him happiness in a world full of hate!
    Acknowledge my place with him and his place with me.
     
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    I think the best "I luv U" is to be there for him.
     
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    REALLY listening to him while he's telling me how his day went...
    Allowing him to either vent or celebrate depending on what kind
    of day it was....If it was vent-worthy, letting him get it all out
    then soothing him with caresses, kisses, running a hot shower
    for him, and then fixing one of his favorite meals for dinner
    followed by... you know...:blush: *giggles*
     
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    Just out of the blue, I'll just walk up to him whereever he is and hug him for a few minutes, or stroke his shoulders and arms and look into his eyes. We stay like that for a few minutes silently. Then we go back to doing whatever we were doing before.
     
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    That sounds very sweet & endearing Sister Riada:spinstar:

    C'mon Sisters, spill some of that voo-doo that you do to keep a pearly white smile on your beloved's face.

    Paying a sweet compliment when he looks rugged after a long hard day of work... or hustlin...I know we gat a few thugs in this joint...:blush: I also leave a rose petal under his pilloweach night; which signifies a fresh, natural, non-whithering love in bloom...bit by bit...day by day:flowers:

    All in all... PEACE would be the greatest gift a woman can ever give her s/o.
     
  10. IfUComeSoftly

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    the most profound things that i can do are...

    first and foremost listen to him, internalize it, and incorporate his suggestions into my life.
    recognize his place as head of my household and my life. recognize my place as his compliment; recongnizing his strength does not negate or diminish my own.
    do more then tell him i love him... show him
    respect and care for myself... when i do this i lighten his load. there is far too much on my king's mind as is he does not need to have my thoughtlessness added to his plate. and that also allows me to respect him and our union.
    as far as acts...
    leaving little notes in his pocket
    surprising him with the little things he likes
    trying little things or doing little things that he knows i hate/or would rather not do just for him
    running a pound on him while playing spades and not talking mad crap... lol

    i think i'm going to ask him and put the reply here... later sista spicy..
     
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