Black People : Street Psychology: A Simple System for Improving Relationships in Everyday Life

Knowledge Seed

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Have you ever felt like someone didn't understand you? Or, maybe, you didn't understand them?

Have there been instances in your life where you immediately connected with another person?

I'll be laying out a system so simply a baby could understand it.

WARNING: This system is so powerful, it will enable you to easily manipulate others. I ask that you employ your highest moral standards when using what I call "Street Psychology".

Lets get started.

The first step is understanding what are call "Personality Colors".

There are only 4 Personality Colors. That makes it pretty simple, right?

The 4 Personality Colors are: Red, Blue, Green and Yellow.

Lets make this a little more interactive.

Take out sheet of paper.

Draw a line down the middle of the paper.

At the top of the paper, write "Open".

At the bottom of the paper, write "Self-contained".

Now, draw a line from left to right on that same paper.

On the left side of the paper, write "Indirect".

On the right side of the paper, write "Direct".

You should now have 4 quadrants.

In the top left hand quadrant, put "Yellow," which make up 35% of the population.

In the bottom left hand quadrant, put "Green," which make up 35% of the population.

In the top right hand quadrant, put "Blue," which make up 15% of the population.

In the bottom right hand quadrant, put "Red," which make up 15% of the population.

When you're finished, your paper should look something like this:
http://www.docstoc.com/docs/document-preview.aspx?doc_id=9438704 (Sorry I couldn't embed it)

Now, lets get into the characteristics and "hot buttons" - or what like to call "Magic Words" - of each personality. As a matter of fact, lets also touch on occupations.

Magic Words:
Yellows- Help, contribute, assist, feel, care,
Blues- Fun, excellent, awesome, travel, new,
Reds- Money, power,
Greens- Information, research

Characteristics:
Yellows- caring, helpful, always answers questions indirectly,
Blues- animated speakers, always talk, love bright colors
Reds- all about the money, likes to be the boss, wants to be in charge, loves competition, and loves recognition
Greens- very analytical, good with numbers, great planners/organizers,

What to say:
Yellows- talk about their family and helping people
Blues- talk about having fun, traveling, meeting people, having freedom, etc
Reds- talk about big money, being your own boss, getting recognized for your success, buying flashy cars, etc
Greens- Financial information, statistics, history, etc

Occupations:
Yellows- nurses, therapists, volunteer work
Blues- sales
Reds- Politicians, doctors, company executives, etc
Greens- CPAs, Engineers, mathematicians, scientist etc

If you decide to put all of this information onto your paper, it should look something like this:
ColorDetector.gif


Which personality are you?
 

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Fundamental techniques in handling people
Don’t criticize, condemn, or complain

Always show sincere appreciation of others

Arouse an eager want in a person. View things from another person’s perspective

Ways to make people like you
Become genuinely interested in other people

Smile

Remember that a person’s name is to that person, the sweetest and most important sound in any language.

Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.

Talk in terms of the other person's interest.

Make the other person feel important and do it sincerely

How to win people to your way of thinking
Avoid arguing with others

Show respect for other people's opinions. Never say “You're wrong”

If you are wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically

When talking with people, begin in a friendly way

Get the other person saying 'yes, yes' immediately

Let the other person do a great deal of the talking

Let the other person feel that the idea is his or hers

Try, honestly, to see things from another person's point of view

Be sympathetic to the other person's ideas and desires

Appeal to nobler motives

Dramatize your ideas

Throw down a challenge

Be a leader: How to change people without giving offense or arousing resentment
Begin with praise and honest appreciation

Call attention to people's mistakes indirectly

Talk about your mistakes before criticizing the other person

Ask questions instead of giving direct orders

Let the other person save face

Praise even the slightest improvement

Give the other person a fine reputation to live up to

Use encouragement. Make the fault seem easy to correct

Make the other person happy by doing the thing you suggest


Rules for making the home life happier
Don't nag

Don't try to make your partner over. Let them be themselves.

Don't criticize

Give honest appreciation

Pay little attentions

Be courteous

Read a good book on the sexual side of marriage
 

Kamau47

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I am all and none.
I have learned to not be catagorized because I am a little of everything. When I take a look at myself honestly, I see that I am fluid, changing from one moment to the next according to the situation and enviornmemt surrounding me.
But I do understand your post, and find it very helpful & enlightening.
 

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